[Guest]

no need to stomp & yell.

i know only of your character what you've revealed here. you're very quick to make personal attacks and you insult those who don't agree with you - personal insults.

i remember a story you told of a christmas party - you were lauighing about a girl you was telling you that her husband would never look at porn - then you all laughed when she walked away because her husband buys porn from you.

that tells me volumes about your character.

i never said there was anything wrong with your character, hd. but we're definitely on two very distant & different pages. thus my statement. judging from the character you reveal here, i don't see us having common friends.

and that was in response to you judging the authenticity of my comments by your experiences with your male friends.

as for the porn & beer...

i'm not going to force a guy to have an adult debate when all he can do is make infantile remarks. if every time i post the response is, "you're a woman," "you need a reality check," and "you don't have a f-ing clue,"...

well i'll talk to him in his language...

that of a fifteen year old.

[Guest]

"i would not think that any of your friends would share my views. i'll take that as a compliment."


yeah most my friends are in the armed forces, i find it funny that you look down your nose, however you do not mind people like my friends putting their asses on the line when the **** hits the fan!

yes, as if their being in the armed forces has anything to do with this discussion.

so they choose to be in the armed forces. and because of that i should agree with their stance on porn?

you make less sense every day, hotdogg.

[hotdogg]

no my point is whilhelm, that you look down your nose at people who enjoy porn, guys in the forces all look at porn!

your view of men who look at porn is low, you say that they are not real men! however you do not mind these men fighting for your country.

you also stated that people who view porn have psychological issues, ( you have a **** cheek ) oh it is a wonder any soldier can do their job with psychological issues.

also who the hell do you think you are to call anyone on this board a child just because they disagree with your unrealistic views?

[Guest]

no my point is whilhelm, that you look down your nose at people who enjoy porn, guys in the forces all look at porn!

two totally unfounded & untrue claims.

this is going nowhere. let's change the tide.

let me ask you a question, hotdogg. you have taken considerable issue with my position that men who use porn are looking for more than a real sexual relationship can give. you have vehemently disagreed with that.

you've also mentioned that, while it isn't your preference, your husband likes to watch lesbian porn. when he's desiring to get off on lesbians, why doesn't he just come to you? i'm not implying that you're a lesbian. it's a serious question.

why?

[hotdogg]

yet another pointless question!

so he likes to watch lesbians! BIG DEAL!

most men look at lesbians so i am suppose to get upset?

and please, give it up already, he comes to me for sex, he watches porn when he just feels like masterbating, just like i do.

what do you find so hard to understand WHILHELM?

[hotdogg]

"two totally unfounded & untrue claims."

LOL! so now you are claiming you do not look down on people who look at porn? even though you say they have psychological issues? lol! you need to make your mind up.

also have you been in the forces?

i have, and i know that they all look at porn so give it a rest.

[Guest]

no, hotdogg, i've never been in the forces. i am the son of a naval commander who didn't watch porn. does that count? do i get a prize?

you assume i look down on people who like porn because i think it's wrong, and i say it's wrong. that's just your assumption.

i think a surface reading of yours & my posts would reveal that you have been much, much more judgemental than i.

we all have psychological issues, hotdogg. i do believe that many people are driven & addicted porn because of things that have gone wrong. and again your assumption is that i am somehow saying they are disabled from doing their job?

we all have a weakness. some of ours are easy to identify.

that's incubus, hotdogg. the singer, by the way, admits to having a problem with looking at porn too much.

come on hotdogg. let's not do this. just answer my question. i never said you should be upset. stop assuming & reading between the lines for a minute or two & just answer me.

[hotdogg]

i did answer you!

maybe i did not give the answer you wanted but i still replied.

[Guest]

well.

i'm not catching the answer. and i'm sensing this will develop just like the "having coffee" question did.

i actually think you know the answer you would have to give will blow a hole in the idea that guys don't get anything more from porn than from normal sex.

[hotdogg]

what a joke!

no that is what you think!

you are so dumb! you seem to find it hard to understand.

firstly if porn was better than sex, men would'nt even bother with women!

also like i have all ready stated, i watch porn and i do not prefer it to sex! so do you think my reasons for watching it are different to mens? i say no and the reason i know is because i communicate with my man!

oh and your pathetic question about sex and coffee! you seem to think you have made a good point! (wrong) so i will blow your theory out of the water!

sex is not like having coffee because!
1) drinking coffee does not get you pregnant!
2) you can not get an STD from coffee
3) You can not get a orgasm drinking coffee

i can not believe that you even consider this a serious question!