[laney]

whilhelm

thanks for standing up and speaking your beliefs,your not alone even though their seems to be so few of us left that find sex a sacred thing of what seems to be the past

[Guest]

hi laney,

what's interesting is that people will say there's nothing sacred about sex but they shudder at the idea of their husband or wife having it with someone else.

it seems that sex really is sacred, until its sacredness interferes with something they want to do. then it's not sacred anymore.

pretty convenient.

[the dude]

oh get off your high horse, nobody is telling you to do anything, you seem to to think that is your job.

i would like to know what makes you think you are right, when you have not proved anything in your posts.

[Guest]

is it really going to be productive, dudedogg? i'll be glad to discuss at length any of my opinions on this topic with you - if you're really interested in doing that.

my experience with the dogg on here has been that whenever i start to engage in this conversation, all i typically get is "don't tell me what to do!," "you don't have a clue!," and "porn is here to stay!"

actually not too different from your posts, dude. and there's nothing productive for you, me, or any of our readers here if that's all we do.

do you have a specific question you'd like to ask me about pornography or my perspective on the issue? would you like to point out something specific that you think i need to prove a little better?

if so, i'll be happy to do it.

[Cathy8889]

whilhelm, thank you for your diligence on such an important topic. For the past 20 years I have experienced 1st hand the effects of porn on a marriage. It's devasting, distratrious and destructive to a loving relationship. It's so nice to be reminded from time to time that there are still men out there that truly care and respect a woman, and what a loving relationship is all about.

[the dude]

Sorry but Whilhelm is not a MAN, he is a woman pretending to be a man, which is pretty pathetic really.

[Guest]

whilhelm, thank you for your diligence on such an important topic. For the past 20 years I have experienced 1st hand the effects of porn on a marriage. It's devasting, distratrious and destructive to a loving relationship. It's so nice to be reminded from time to time that there are still men out there that truly care and respect a woman, and what a loving relationship is all about.

thanks so much for the kind words. what's really encouraging, i think, is that the movement to expose the horrible impact porn is having on men is growing tremendously. there are more & more men's movements that are dedicated to building character in men - and porn is a huge part of that movement.

even college aged guys are being exposed to the dangerous effect porn can have on them throughout life - and they're choosing to stay away from it.

of course, at the same time & at an even faster pace, society is desensitizing itself to be even more accepting of porn - and kids, younger & younger, are being exposed to it. we can thank folks like the dude for this, who care nothing about innocent lives destroyed by porn & everything about their own civil liberties to do whatever makes them happy at the moment.

but more & more men are recognizing the evil truth behind the airbrushed gloss pornographers use to sell their poison.

you only need to live in the world for a few years & you'll eventually begin to see the lives destroyed by porn. not just angry wives that people can write off as neurotic. men are experiencing the way porn robs them of their sexuality - steals their ability to bring raw male libido into a relationship - and they resent that. they regret having ever touched it.

and that message is spreading, obviously.

[Guest]

Sorry but Whilhelm is not a MAN, he is a woman pretending to be a man, which is pretty pathetic really.

i know, dude. seriously, man!

cool! beer & pornos! let's jack off, man!

awesome, dude! i'm over here jackin' off with porn & i'm manly!

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anything to keep away from the issue we're discussing, huh dude? i can't blame you. your arguments are laughable.

i'd try to sidetrack us too if i were you.

although if i were you i don't think i'd worry about this forum - i'd be gettin' busy with some cool pornos!

yeah! high-five, dude!

porn forever!

[zoezoe]

thats funny, i do not know any men who are anti porn. i do not belive that men are turning their back on porn at all, that is just wishful thinking.

plus i do not think you sounded very manly you proberbly are a woman, its not like its not possible to pretend on here.

[Guest]

no zoe. you're dead wrong. there are thousands of men who are turning their backs on porn. keep researching.

was i trying to sound manly? or trying to make fun of the psuedo-manly attitude that glorifies porn?

or maybe i'm just a woman.

pick what makes you happy. either way, porn still has no value & i'm only one of a countless sea of men who have learned that.