[Joe77]

(guy here) one ex girlfriend of mine could if she was on top and we did this pelvic grind thing she did.

[ItsASecret]

The pelvic grinding stimulates the clitoris if she is sitting flat on you, it works in a lot of girls but most often when she is sitting flat or is already manually rubbing her clitoris while moving her hips.

[Stillness]

OK, so this thread was interesting enough that I talked to my wife about it a couple of days ago. I wanted to come on here, but I've been trying to process all of what she said. I now give up on trying to understand female sexuality. She told me things that simply blew my mind. Some of them I'm not comfortable repeating.

We've been married almost 12 years. Basically, she only likes to climax from penile penetration, which she does regularly, more now than ever. When I told her that she was in the minority, she said that she had to teach herself physically and mentally. I simply don't get that. She talked about the experience in almost spiritual terms - like clearing her mind and being unaware of what's going on. When I asked her certain questions, she didn't know the answer because she's unaware. She does not masterbate. (This is actually one of the things I wonder about. I always hear that men can decrease sensitivity by masterbating. Wouldn't the same be true of women? Why are women told to masterbate? Maybe we enjoy such an orgasmic relationship because she doesn't.)

[Joe77]

My evidence is 99% anecdotal but it seems that the women who can EASILY orgasm from penetration, which is a lot less than the 30% who can in some way or another, seem to prefer it to oral or anything else.

[Stillness]

My evidence is 99% anecdotal but it seems that the women who can EASILY orgasm from penetration, which is a lot less than the 30% who can in some way or another, seem to prefer it to oral or anything else.

Add your anecdote with mine and we've got the start of a trend. My wife seems to prefer not having an orgasm to having one with anything other that my penis in her vagina. She actually broke it down in great detail for me the other day. The really funny thing is that I can now make her climax every single time, but only some of the time through intercourse. She'll complain if I make her lose control. It's like, "I'm so sorry that I've driven you to ecstasy." It's funny, but she actually feels a little robbed.

[Lady Syrinx]

I'm one of the lucky ones. It takes longer and isn't as intense when he's on top, But when I'm on top it's "mutiple-ville."

[lady7474]

I cannot and I envy any women who can. Aside from it being annoying for myself, I imagine my boyfriend may get a little exhausted having to get me off by clitoral stimulation all the time. I've heard it's possible for everyone, but how to reach that possibility? I don't know

[jns]

lady, I don't know why your bf should be exhausted unless you take an extremely long time to climax. It should be fun for him to drive you wild.

[Element]

I've only orgasmed once by penetration. I was literally curled up on top of my boyfriend when I was able to. I believe that as I moved I was able to rub my clit on him so that's what's helped. But I haven't been able to replicate the outcome since. In the mean time I'm having fun experimenting with new positions and experiences with him.

[jenniferbabe22]

This is very interesting. I heard it requires both penetration and stimulation from someone. I love the discussions in this forum as I am new here.