[MoeJr]

Anal can be very pleasurable for some, for first or second time people it can be uncomfortable. Like anything once again it's a communication issue, a need to do things right, my guess is he just plunges right in, which causes pain and discomfort. Next time he starts to push the subject, tell him you want to get a strap-on and see if he likes it, if he does you might try it again, seeing as though you can now return the favor When or if he says ...no fricking way.. now you have the, well now you know how I feel point. Maybe he will drop the subject, or at least think about you and the subject more. Good Luck!