[Clai0018]

A little bit of background; I have been with the same guy for over 12 yrs. We were High school sweethearts and are getting married in 3 months. We have decided to start trying for kids. We have always and always used 2 methods on contraception. Always Birth Control and Condoms. I have been off my birth control for about 3 months now and we finally stopped using condoms too…

I love the sensation of him cuming in me. I feel his **** pulsating and I love it. It is a great turn on.. but for him, he says it is a lovely feeling without the condom but prefers cuming in a condom? Less of a mess he says? What do you guys do? Do you men prefer condoms or not? What is your take on cuming inside you?

[Hugo-B]

This is actually quite an interesting question for me.

Now I know this is stupid, but I spent a total of seven years in two long term relationships where (because of the girls' incompatibility with hormone based birth control) we used the withdrawal method. Stupid I know, but not one pregnancy scare, I think I'm, actually firing blanks.

I used condoms with other girls and basically by 31 I'd only ejaculated inside girls a relatively small number of times (each was on the pill for a short time and one had a coil for a little while). Ejaculating inside a girl is a very unique, and extraordinarily nice feeling in my opinion, and, is one of the most intimate things you can do. I became very used to 'seeing' my cum, and now I'm almost one year into a relationship with my present SO, who is on the pill I feel much more comfortable cumming in her than I did initially. Firstly I always associated cumming in a girl as a pregnancy threat (which it always is to a degree) and I had a strange feeling I was almost making a mess in her. Cumming into a condom is more controlled and clinical, you see and know exactly what is going where if that makes sense. Climaxing in a woman is more intimate, not only do you enter your penis into her but you ejaculate and leave your semen inside her. 11 month into our relationship me and my GF are having sex, when I'm about to cum she often giggles and asks me to cum in her mouth and more often than not I can't bring myself to pull out of her!

If your BF is one of those guys who gets set in his ways he's likely just finding the new regime an uncomfortable departure from the norm, I'm sure he'll get used to it, and most certainly don't take offense, us boys are strange creatures too.

[Element]

I think that you're going to end up getting different answers from everybody.

My boyfriend loathes wearing condoms for one reason; he didn't know what size to wear back in the day and was wearing ones that were too small, so he got use to only enjoying sex when he wouldn't wear a condom.

I'm on the pill so I don't mind us not using condoms. There has only been one time that I forgot my pill (scared me because I had never missed a day, ever) and I refused to let him cum in me for the week (as the pill warnings say). So for that week either he pulled out or we went a different route than vaginal sex. In fact, he's the only sex partner I've ever had and I've never had sex with a condom. But I'm in no rush to know what it feels like to have sex when he wears one.

[AshB$]

I think the best thing is my fiance cumming in me! I love it! Can't lie, it is messy. Just lay your butt on a shirt or towel so it doesn't get on the bed (or wherever you make love). It's not like he has to clean it up, does he? Tell him not to worry about making a mess. It's call love and love can get messy. Focus on each other.

[LittlePip]

I love the sensation of him cuming in me. I feel his **** pulsating and I love it. It is a great turn on.. but for him, he says it is a lovely feeling without the condom but prefers cuming in a condom? Less of a mess he says? What do you guys do? Do you men prefer condoms or not? What is your take on cuming inside you?

Firstly, congratulations on your relationship, you're very lucky to have found one another and I'm pleased for your success!

I know exactly what you mean, I love the pulsating sensation and feeling the cum, er, coming! I have absolutely no problem with cum, on me, in me, anywhere, it's how sex is supposed to work! If it gets spilt, clean it, it's not the end of the world, it's worth a little carefree attitude for all the fun you get to have before!

I won't lie, in the hours following sex having cum coming back out can be a bit of a pain but I would never voice that to my BF out of fear he'd stop doing it, it is certainly worth it!

If he's a bit timid about making a mess perhaps you could invite him to make a mess? And I mean a real mess. Tell him you don't give a hoot where it goes you want it in you, on you, everywhere. Of course this depends on your attitude towards cum! There's always a hot shower waiting after! Have lots of fun with it!

[Arthemis]

Strange, most men hate condoms including my hubby, but then again, it differs from one person to another.

[skirt99]

One of the best thing about being on the pill is not having to use a condom. Like several of you, I love the feeling of my guy cumming inside me. It’s warm and wonderful and its just amazing to feel him throbbing at climax. As a bonus, he sometimes goes so hard that it hits my cervix which is sensational. As for the mess….it used to bother me but now I just wear a panty liner to soak it up.

[avvie_88]

1.) If you've only been off the pill for 3 months, I don't think you should be trying just yet. I believe the "safe" period is to wait 6 months before trying... I'm not a fan of children (call me a Grinch if you'd like... I'll take my furry 4-legged buddies over a screaming child ANY day), but better safe, waiting a few extra months, than an potential increase for being "sorry" if you ask me anyway.
2.) I agree with it being a mess. I get the same feeling with or without a condom, but it's so much easier/cleaner with one. My other half prefers without but also understands I'm left to deal with the aftermath. haha
And he knows that I really, REALLY don't want children, so unless I am positive my pills have been taken flawlessly,same exact time, daily, blahblahblah, we don't go without.
So we use one FAR more than we don't. But again, we're not looking to have kids like you are.

[jns]

I've never been able to climax with a condom on while having intercourse due to the loss of sensation. I sometimes joke that a condom prevents pregnancy by preventing orgasm as it does with me. When I was younger, being able to effectively use a condom may have had an impact on my sex life.

[LittlePip]

1.) If you've only been off the pill for 3 months, I don't think you should be trying just yet. I believe the "safe" period is to wait 6 months before trying... I'm not a fan of children (call me a Grinch if you'd like... I'll take my furry 4-legged buddies over a screaming child ANY day), but better safe, waiting a few extra months, than an potential increase for being "sorry" if you ask me anyway.

I'm sorry, I missed the part saying you were trying, I would second this advice to wait a while before you try to conceive after using a hormone based contraceptive, I think this is what is advised! I got carried away thinking about the sex and orgasms there - oops!