[Hugo-B]

The worst thing you can do, or one of the worst things during any sexual encounter with a women is not respond accordingly to her verbal and non verbal cues. She'll encourage you and let you know you're doing something correctly or not by responding to each touch and movement by making 'positive' noises; or, if you're hurting her, less positive sounds (hopefully they'll be no yelps of pain). Most commonly, if you're not quite hitting the spot she may just be quiet or at least not sound like she's enjoying herself.

There's no shame in asking her for a 'driving lesson', all women are different and it can take time to learn your way around a women's body and ascertain what makes her tick. There is shame in being a lazy selfish ************************************************** **********************.

Search on Amazon for a book called 'how to give her absolute pleasure'.

I forgot I wrote this. I just remembered that I first learned (aged 28 or 29 from the book I mentioned above) that there is a 'clitoral mound' (I think that's what it's called) and the clitoris isn't just the little bit under the hood, there is a lot more underneath. I remember my GF laughed when I told her I'd just made this discovery, but in my defense, as a man NO ONE teaches you this stuff, we're just expected to know it. I think she was glad I read that book, I bought it after she gave me a kick up the backside for slacking on foreplay and said I was receiving too much oral and giving too little (and I was, she'd spoiled me a bit) so I bought and studied that book to make it up to her. After I implemented some of the tricks she accused me of cheating on her! No good deed goes unpunished...

Proactive learning seems to be the key gentlemen, women don't teach us to read between the lines, they just reserve the right to be ****ed off when we don't

[DreamP346]

but in my defense, as a man NO ONE teaches you this stuff, we're just expected to know it. D

Sad part is, for most women, nobody teaches them either. Well, at least not here in the US. Most medical books don't even show the clit. Sex ed doesn't go into pleasure. It deals mostly with STI and pregnancy prevention.