[DreamP346]

Why do you care? You said you just wanted to have fun and not be bothered with the other complicated stuff of a relationship but that is exactly what you are doing. What do you care what he thinks. If you want to get laid, fine. Why wait around for him unless you are looking to add drama in your life.

[rosekitten]

You say you're not trying to be "easy" and yet you're throwing yourself at a married man. So, not only does he not have morals or respect for his wife, but you will also get drama and lies. What about that is desirable? Is it the "oh, I'm so hot this man won't say loyal, look at how great I am?" If you just want to have sex, go find some singles to hit on, don't run into drama.

[BabyGirl]

Trixie

looking for advice on why...does the maybe mean I may be filled with drama, I may want more that he can't give? should I just write "I want to ******************************** you" in an email to him? lol I was trying not to be as easy....

You seem to be ignoring everyone's advice here. You seem to be making this a joke.
No one here is encouraging you to have or start an affair with a married man .
Many have asked pertinent Questions and you simply ignore them and laugh it off.

NO You should not write him and say you want to " F " him. You should write him one last time, apologize and tell him he needs to work his issues out with his wife. And that you will not see him again.

Then leave the Cheaters website and join a Casual Dating one, with people in it that are looking for Friends, Companions and yes even One night Stands . People that are SINGLE !!!

I am seriously beginning to wonder if you are really in your 40's, if you really have 2 kids. I can't see a Good Mother, acting this way, if you have been Cheated on, you of all people should know how that feels to be betrayed.

If you have kids, you need to set a good Example, be Honest and Trustworthy, have good morals and be respectable . I asked if you would tell your Kids it's ok to go out and have an Affair with a married person . You did not answer, you side stepped it all together .

I'm not 100% sure, but I'm feeling Troll here .

[time2discover]

I agree, you need to see you're worth alot more than that. You're starting to feel good about yourself and want the guys to show you it's true.
Go out and live your life the way you want it and if sex without a relationship is what you want, it's your life.

Just remember that this guy will not give you anything more than that, but at the same time, there's a woman like you sitting at home going through what you did with your ex. That isn't worth it!

Go and get what you need from a guy you can trust and if things develop, you'll at least know there's a chance since you're not just the other woman.

I really think you're worth all that!! Good luck!

[lizzardb63]

He is Married.............END OF STORY. Why would you like to begin a relationship with a man who's supposed to be committed to another woman? He's not going to give you his entirety. He's spoken for and what he's doing is wrong. What makes you think it's going to work out? And even if it does...for how long? If he's willing to cheat on someone now, I can guarantee he'd be willing to cheat again in the future.

[Fallen1]

Old thread. O/P was banned and has not/will not return to respond.

Thread closed.