[jns]

Buddhaboy-Isn't it socially awkward to advertise that you love giving oral sex when you're just dating someone? I don't think most men know this fact about me until I know they really like me and want a relationship with me.

It may be socially awkward for bb, but at least the girl knows what to expect before things get going too much. She can then make an informed choice.

bb was saying about you being single: I think he meant that a certain subset of guys would know a good thing when they found out about your likes and personality and would want to monopolize that situation by marrying you. Of course, you would have to also agree that they brought the right personality and skill set to the relationship.

[Magnetism]

It may be socially awkward for bb, but at least the girl knows what to expect before things get going too much. She can then make an informed choice.

bb was saying about you being single: I think he meant that a certain subset of guys would know a good thing when they found out about your likes and personality and would want to monopolize that situation by marrying you. Of course, you would have to also agree that they brought the right personality and skill set to the relationship.

I would have to get to know a man to make sure he's open-minded enough to handle that kind of discussion.

No matter how hot a man is, I probably wouldn't like to hear "I love to eat **********" on the first date. There's just something about being so blunt that ruins the slow burning sexual tension and mystery.

I've known men that say that it's more fun to see a sweet and demure woman turn into a freak in bed, intead of her being so open about sex right away.

[WifeNMomma]

I love giving oral! It excites me just thinking about it. And I to have orgasmed while giving. And I do not care if we go back and forth between sex, and oral. And as my man is deployed now all I have is the thinking part. :-( I also onced dumped a guy that refused to receive. I was shocked that this could happen.

[Hugo-B]

I love giving oral! It excites me just thinking about it. And I to have orgasmed while giving. And I do not care if we go back and forth between sex, and oral. And as my man is deployed now all I have is the thinking part. :-( I also onced dumped a guy that refused to receive. I was shocked that this could happen.

I think WifeNMomma is setting a fantastic example to women everywhere. I vote this as post of the year.

[notlikethenormal]

I agree with WifeNMomma though... I would feel like I was missing out on a HUGE part of sex.

[InvaderTAQ]

I love giving my bf blowjobs. I've been told I'm very good at it, and I love doing things I'm good at. Plus he puts a lot of effort into making sure I'm pleasured before and during sex, so I like that I can do this to return the favour

[AnnieE]

I have NEVER done it, and the thought of it makes me feel totally sick !!!

[Hugo-B]

Can too much deep throating harm the gag reflex or damage any part of the throat?

My GF said this was something she was concerned about since we do this quite a lot. One of the things she like doing for me (because I enjoy it so much) is laying on her back on the bed with her head hanging off the edge so it''s like I'm having sex with her mouth. She encourages me to go as deep as I can and she said she has much better control of the gag reflex but wonders if it could cause any problems in the future. I'm not rough with her and I don't want to do anything that could possibly damage her in any way.

[Melephant]

I've always enjoyed giving oral sex, my ex would never let me give him blow jobs for like six months when we first started sleeping together -he always said he just never enjoyed it when previous girlfriends had done it. i am pleased to say i changed his mind, though, looking back, it could very well have said that to make me more eager... oh well, it was fun!

But i've never enjoyed recieving oral too much..it doesn't make me uncomfortable or anything, but it never once got me off. Typically, all three men i've been with have loved to do it :-S

I could happily be with a man who never wanted to go down on me but i'd be very frustrated if i was with a man who didn't let me go down on him

[ItsASecret]

Can too much deep throating harm the gag reflex or damage any part of the throat?

Not really. Unless she is gagging and eyes watering obviously having an issue with the act itself the main problem would be her choking and actually not being able to breath because she is choking. But if force is used then the throat can become sensitive and irritation can occur which can then lead to more issues such as skin damage due to the constant irritation. However that would take a lot of force and a lot of not caring about what the woman says so it really is not a problem in your case.