[Stillness]

I'd rather be in a great relationship and just be trying to work on something like this, than be in a relationship with an abundance of sex but where there were problems of equal magnitude elsewhere.

I'd prefer not to be in either. I got married in large part so I could have sex like I want to. But, having been in both kinds of relationship, I agree with you.

It's been this way since we've been married. Before we we're married we probably had more sex, but we still didn't really connect. I had only been in one long-term sexual relationship before that. The young lady was absolutely insatiable. I thought that's how women were. I mistook my wife's issues for strictly moral ones and assumed marriage would fix it.

She's not on any birth control. She does have some feminine issues that could affect libido and we're working on dealing with them.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Honey you have to tell us a bit more, I think.

Why is he avoiding intimacy? He is avoiding intimacy with you .

I don't know if it's because you expect, he's anxcious, he's overworked, old, not in the mood what.