[TVlover]

Hi all,

After some advice.

I met this girl, she is the first to ever really show me any interest sexually, normally I make good "friend material".

So we had been on a few dates, and recently ended up at mine.

Thinsg were going well, till her phone went off, and it turned out she had been seeing this other guy, I dont know him, but know of him. He is over 6ft, a lot lot taller than me. (I hate being short), and he trains quite regularly, is at least 13.5st, which also intimidates me.

So I sort of lost it, started crying at her, which didnt really go down well. In fact, if I am honest, she started laughing at me....

So she was putting her stuff together to leave, and I was really emotional, and threw my Virgin remote control at her. Unfortunately it missed and hit the wall, and broke.

So now I not only have nobody to have sex with, I cant even change channel on the tv without having to get up from my seat every time.

Bloody women.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Firstly.

and threw my Virgin remote control at her. Unfortunately it missed and hit the wall, and broke.

Really?

Bloody women.

verses heading I broke my Virgin Remote..

It's really quite funny if you don't mind me saying, or Little, because I just read up on Virgin remotes and there were so many complaints that they don't work

In any event, you nearly had it but didn't and you know why but I don't know why you headed this thread as you did, instead of, how can I not be so insecure ladies/ men?

[TVlover]

Im not insecure as such, just aware that when God dealt out the cards that cause women to be attracted to men, I was dealt a pretty poor hand!

I am 5"6 and a classic ectomorph. I personally believe I have a goo dsense of humour and am great company, but women wont even give me the time of day to find that out. I can understand, I look like a skeletal dwarf :/

And I am VERY upset about my Virgin remote control, as my lounge is quite large, which means a lot of walking! Plus, I have the Virgin (for those who arent aware, its like Sky) box installed in a little unit, so pressing the buttons means I have to pull the box out a little every time.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

But, you threw a control at her why? That's not cool, plus that suggests anger.

Secondly, you are in-secure (in my opinion) you cried, threw a tantrum yet you had the prize so to speak. 5 foot 6 is also average and I am sure you are also average in size elsewhere. So I can not still see what you are worried about nor why your heading talks about remote controls by "Virgin".

And if you are upset about your "control" try controlling yourself from not throwing things at women.

What do you expect with all due respect , from this Forum?

[TVlover]

I didnt plan on throwing it at her, she made me feel so... inadequate, second best, no, not even second best, more like subhuman. I just launched it in her direction, youre right, it was anger like ive never felt before. To go from a feeling of happiness, to out and out self hate, I lost control :/ (no pun intended!!!)

5"6 isnt average, all my mates are 6ft +... I feel like a boy most of the time. Average elsewhere!? What are you insinuating?????

I head the talk about my virgin remote control as such because it is a remote control made by the company virgin. Had it have been Sky, I would have titled it "I broke my Sky remote".

I dont intend to throw anything at women again, as I think I also slightly pulled something in my elbow...

What do I expect from this forum? I dont know. i had read a few posts and it is a very open place to discuss things, so I thought I would be accepted... Now it seems I will be outcast even from a virual land...

[JonDoe]

Thinsg were going well, till her phone went off, and it turned out she had been seeing this other guy, I dont know him, but know of him. He is over 6ft, a lot lot taller than me. (I hate being short), and he trains quite regularly, is at least 13.5st, which also intimidates me.

So I sort of lost it, started crying at her, which didnt really go down well. In fact, if I am honest, she started laughing at me....

I also got a laugh out of the title, but it was insensitive of her to laugh at you when you were crying.

From your post, it appears that you barely knew the young woman, or at least hadn't agreed to be an exclusive couple. So what were you jealous about? By describing the height and weight of the other guy, it appears to the reader that you were concerned that he has a bigger wanker, which is not always the case. I recall seeing a white guy in a locker room years ago, he was all of 5.5 feet and 11 stones by estimate, and his flacid member practivally hung to his knees. And I have seen plenty of black guys with little ones. So the stereotypes aren't always true and if you worry yourself about it that could lead to performance anxiety.

Anyway, when the phone rang she was with you, apparently having a good time, ready and willing to have sex. Why get hung up on a phone call from another guy unless she immediately jumped up and said "I gotta go"? If she were to become your steady girlfriend, would you "forbid" her to have male friends or receive phone calls from guy friends? Jealousy is not an attractive quality and a tough beast to tame. Next time try having confidence in knowing that she was enjoying your company and wanted to "get busy" with you. Relax and enjoy the moment.

[JonDoe]

Im not insecure as such, just aware that when God dealt out the cards that cause women to be attracted to men, I was dealt a pretty poor hand!

I am 5"6 and a classic ectomorph. I personally believe I have a goo dsense of humour and am great company, but women wont even give me the time of day to find that out. I can understand, I look like a skeletal dwarf :/

And I am VERY upset about my Virgin remote control, as my lounge is quite large, which means a lot of walking! Plus, I have the Virgin (for those who arent aware, its like Sky) box installed in a little unit, so pressing the buttons means I have to pull the box out a little every time.

Life is about choices, decisions, and consequences. You had a choice to throw or not throw the remote. You decided to throw the remote. The consequence is that you either buy a new remote or continue to walk across your flat to change channels. She didn't make you do this, you made the decision to do so. Get over the remote and deal with the real issue of insecurity.

[TVlover]

Im glad you all find this funny, this is my life!!!!!!

[TVlover]

There is a lot of hinting at penis size, why? I have never once mentioned his penis. He is just a real alpha male, and I am the total opposite.

[JonDoe]

Im glad you all find this funny, this is my life!!!!!!

The only thing that I found funny was your choice of title for the original post. The rest is no laughing matter, and people that post here genuinely want to offer helpful advice.

There is a lot of hinting at penis size, why? I have never once mentioned his penis. He is just a real alpha male, and I am the total opposite.

You are correct, you never directly mentioned his penis, so perhaps we misunderstood your hang up. Let's move on to what appears to be the real issues.

Bottom line, insecurity, jealousy and anger are not attractive qualities. Most women are not shallow and only attracted to height and so called "classic good looks". However, women are definitely attracted to confident men that know how to treat a lady like she is special. Women are also attracted to guys that can make them laugh. If you are confident, can make her laugh, treat her as if she is special, and can give her incredible orgasms, your height and build simply won't matter. There are plenty of women 5'8" and shorter that are in search of a man that fits that description.