Okay. This is all for future reference, as the past is the past. A little healthy jealousy can make a woman (in a RELATIONSHIP) feel like yeah, I still got it
But SEVERE jealousy coming from someone thats just a potential bf, will turn any woman off.
So you are not tall, so what. A girl that only likes tall guys isn't going to date you at all. So if a woman is into you, don't automatically assume she's going to dump you the minute something taller comes calling. You are setting yourself up for living in constant fear of abandonment if you do.
Throwing a tantrum, throwing an object --- screams of immaturity to most women. Please don't do that. Its abusive, insulting thats number 1.. but secondly... its not going to make her all of a sudden realize the error of her ways for whatever ticked you off... it will only frighten her away.
You don't have to be an alpha male to get a good woman. But yes, you may be an ill fit for a woman that craves that dominant male figure. So.... pick your potentials appropriately. No where near all women want a caveman. Many women fall for the guy that can make them laugh, makes them feel special, is interesting and that they share common interests, world views, etc.
My boyfriend is by no means tall, and he is not some dominant overbearing alpha guy. However, he has a quiet sexy confidence. We can be around men hitting on me, guys that are taller than him, attractive guys, etc.. and he never ever shows any signs of insecurity. I can't help but respect that about him, even if I sometimes grrrrr * why he doesn't ever waiver in his faith that I ain't going nowhere lol.
Keep in mind that you will NEVER be the best man out there, so stop comparing yourself to them. There is no best man out there.. believe that you are the best man for the woman you are with and let that comfort you. When you are sure about yourself, it shines.
But SEVERE jealousy coming from someone thats just a potential bf, will turn any woman off. So you are not tall, so what. A girl that only likes tall guys isn't going to date you at all. So if a woman is into you, don't automatically assume she's going to dump you the minute something taller comes calling. You are setting yourself up for living in constant fear of abandonment if you do.
Throwing a tantrum, throwing an object --- screams of immaturity to most women. Please don't do that. Its abusive, insulting thats number 1.. but secondly... its not going to make her all of a sudden realize the error of her ways for whatever ticked you off... it will only frighten her away.
You don't have to be an alpha male to get a good woman. But yes, you may be an ill fit for a woman that craves that dominant male figure. So.... pick your potentials appropriately. No where near all women want a caveman. Many women fall for the guy that can make them laugh, makes them feel special, is interesting and that they share common interests, world views, etc.
My boyfriend is by no means tall, and he is not some dominant overbearing alpha guy. However, he has a quiet sexy confidence. We can be around men hitting on me, guys that are taller than him, attractive guys, etc.. and he never ever shows any signs of insecurity. I can't help but respect that about him, even if I sometimes grrrrr * why he doesn't ever waiver in his faith that I ain't going nowhere lol.
Keep in mind that you will NEVER be the best man out there, so stop comparing yourself to them. There is no best man out there.. believe that you are the best man for the woman you are with and let that comfort you. When you are sure about yourself, it shines.
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