[Bulldog]

Lol. Men are very stimulated visually. Makes sense. Something hot about a sexually wanton woman.....esp if she still chooses to be with you.

[305]

I hear you...let's just say I get the best of both worlds because he gets SOOOOO aroused that he just wants to take me and can't take it after our friend leaves...it's kinky and fun! (: just because my friends wouldn't even guess that I would be open to the idea...

[305]

Have any women tried any of this?

[Patti-here]

Have any women tried any of this?

I can only speak for myself, but 'no'

[305]

oh okay...just wanted to hear other women's experiences and techniques, that's all.
But I've noticed that your in ALL the forums...lol

[305]

Well, any men here have thoughts regarding this lol

[Aqemini1977]

Well, any men here have thoughts regarding this lol

I am a guy and 10 years ago I would have said no way I would be okay with this but something strange happened in 2008. Me and my girlfriend and 8 other friends were on vacation in Rimini Italy. After a night of drinking and dancing, me and her close friend (who is female) we began physically touching and flirting. My girlfriend thought it was funny and egged us on a bit. We only had one full size bed in the room for the 3 of us. When me and my girlfriend started making out (we thought she fell asleep) she reached out her hand and began touching me while she started masturbating. She started to hold my hand and then my girlfriends hand. It was super arousing. I must say that is was an overwhelming sexual experience that has never been duplicated since then. We never took it past that but that opened me up to the thought of sharing my bedroom with another person (female or male).

[Something_Awesome]

Aqemini, that actually sounded like it went down romantically. Sounds like it happened in a way we all should be jealous of!

My GF has a freind that wants to watch us have sex (I only know this because my GF told me, the friend did not tell me directly). This is not something I ever thought about, but once I was introduced to the idea I thought it woud be awesome. My GF is against and I think it has more to do with this friend maybe involving herself while we do it. That is a legit concern.

Lastly, my GF watches a show with Kevin Spacey called House of Cards (SMALL SPOILER FOLLOWS). She explained to me how a threesome scene went down with Kevin Spacey (he's the vice president of the US), his wife, and their extremely loyal and dedicated male body guard. My GF described the scene very thoroughly (how it started) and it did sound like it went down romantically. I could tell by the way she was explaining it that she liked what she saw. I asked her how she felt about it and she thought it was hot.

I honestly think she may be interested in a threesome with me and another guy. I have asked her about it and she did not give me a strong NO. What I do know is that there are no guys in our social circles that she would ever even consider doing this with (I know her type of guys). Plus, she would never do it with a stranger so she is SOL.

I am OK with her having the fantasy but I probably would not be down for a threesome.

[HerHusband]

I wouldn't do this as a cuckold but if my wife was open to a swinging situation I would be curious. She however is NOT. I really don't understand the cuckold thing but for those who like it good for you. I wont judge.

[Something_Awesome]

So for the women that enjoy this, in what sense is this enjoyable? Let me elaborate...

For instance, my GF and I will use a sex toy (a vibrator that is meant for penetration) sometimes when we do it. One way we may use it is to put the toy in her for stimulation while me tongue focuses on the clit. In this sense, the toy is one source of pleasure, though she is enjoying the sex with me.

Something my GF did today, which is probably a better parallel, is use the sex toy while making me watch. So going back to where your SO watches you have sex with another man... Is the other man more like a sex toy in this case? Is it like a foreplay until you and your partner have sex? Or for the woman, it's more about you enjoying sex with a new guy (which I guess is a bonus for you), while your SO gets the enjoyment of watching.

Maybe what I am asking is when you are having sex with the new guy, is it more about your SO or is your pleasure more about the guy you are having sex with? Maybe you feel you are having sex indirectly with your SO?

I,tried my best to word my question, so maybe you guys can give your best shot at answering it