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  • Magnetism
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2009
    • 1060

    Originally posted by a_dub
    A friend of mine (he's a guy) once told me he doesn't really get anything out of penetrative intercourse. He was wondering if he was abnormal. According to him he has lots of sex, he just doesn't enjoy it. But he did claim to love getting BJs.
    Let him know that I may be the perfect girl for him, ha. I'm the same. I love to give BJs, but don't care about getting penetrative sex.
    "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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    • jelliedfox
      Member
      • Nov 2012
      • 11

      We all seem to be having a the same kind of issues... but has there been any progress at all? So far, I feel a little bit more when I am not as wet.... just loobed on his end so he can get in, I can feel him more, thats it.

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      • dipadas022
        Member
        • Dec 2012
        • 15

        I think your husband's penis size is small which can not sufficient for you. You need some extra large penis reason your vagina's deep get larger. So it is not your fault. Don't be upset. And say him for use any sex tablet or oil for larger penis.

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        • NubbinsUp
          Member
          • Dec 2012
          • 43

          jf, I've read your posting and all of the comments, and you've gotten some good advice here, and it's clear you take this seriously. My own assessment is that you have unrealistic expectations about how it should feel. Just like some women (and men) have very senstiive nipples and some don't, some women have sensitive vaginas and some don't. It doesn't seem that you have anything medically or physiologically wrong with you. Enjoy each other's company, try new things from time to time, and let the stress about this go. It can get more pleasurable, but by invention of your mind and affection for him, not from more active nerve endings.

          My own penis is very small, and penetrative vaginal intercourse with me has been frustrating and disappointing for all or almost all of my female partners. Some told me directly, and some did not, but it's very clear. I'm never going to wow a woman that way, but you know what? The sex is generally great, and a couple of women in my past would consider me among their best lovers. I'm a nice person. I'm giving and creative in bed, and I put a woman's pleasure first. I found ways to make it work, even with a very small penis.

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          • jelliedfox
            Member
            • Nov 2012
            • 11

            Originally posted by NubbinsUp
            jf, I've read your posting and all of the comments, and you've gotten some good advice here, and it's clear you take this seriously. My own assessment is that you have unrealistic expectations about how it should feel. Just like some women (and men) have very senstiive nipples and some don't, some women have sensitive vaginas and some don't. It doesn't seem that you have anything medically or physiologically wrong with you. Enjoy each other's company, try new things from time to time, and let the stress about this go. It can get more pleasurable, but by invention of your mind and affection for him, not from more active nerve endings.

            My own penis is very small, and penetrative vaginal intercourse with me has been frustrating and disappointing for all or almost all of my female partners. Some told me directly, and some did not, but it's very clear. I'm never going to wow a woman that way, but you know what? The sex is generally great, and a couple of women in my past would consider me among their best lovers. I'm a nice person. I'm giving and creative in bed, and I put a woman's pleasure first. I found ways to make it work, even with a very small penis.

            Dont worry, I did not take that seriously enough. My boyfriend reaches the back of me, and it hurts, so i know hes wrong.

            As for your situations, give it time. Ive read a few places that certain positions and what not can make it more evident for a woman.

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