[ItalianSweetie]

Brit, if he keeps on asking you what YOU are doing, and keeps on calling you/texting to see what your doing,maybe he is feeling guilty about something HE is doing. Usually someone that acts like that is the one hiding something. I'm not saying he is cheating for sure, but the signs are definately there.

[ItalianSweetie]

I think there is more to it than just insecurity issues. If my man was always pushing me away, not wanting to have sex with me, I'd be hurt, but also furious. I would definately be looking for answers.

[Husband333]

He is cheating on your or can't deal with you dancing anymore. He sounds like a tough guy that doesn't want to talk about his feelings. Time to break up or confront him.
I never encourage looking at a partners phone but the pass code protect is a red flag

Keep dancing and being confident. Do not let a guy bring you down

[Brit0412]

I dont think my job is thr problem.. he was the one to give me the nudge to start (3 years ago) he used to come to the bar all the time n hang out wth people. he never shows his face there nemore... ive started just doin my own thing.. ill go to bed before him, I wake up early and get my workout and a cup of coffee in before he even stirs... then once he wakes within 15-20 min hes gone..ive stopped trying to get him to come places with me, stopped bother to ask if hes gonna make it home for dinner.. he knows dinner is at 6-630pm. he asked me the other morning if i was sleeping with someone else!!? I laughed so hard.. like really? sometimes he is so daft! i explained to him that no i wasnt, and that im just tired of feeling unwanted.. "but i do want you" was his response.. I said "al.. u told me two days ago i wasnt sexy?!! how do u think that made me feel?" ... he just looked at me like i had six heads and tried to tell me he'd never say that.. i said ok well you did.. n left it at that.. I'm done with trying to figure things out ive tried and tried for soo long.. ive invested soo much of myself into him and his family the past 3 years.. i just cant do it anymore.. mentally physically i cant handle the extra stress, drama, despodent and deprssed feelings... i jut want to be loved..to feel love and appericiated.. as ive stated before hes got till feb to get his **** straight.. ive told him he knows.. ive also said that the next time something goes wrong n we argue..if he throws in my face that he'll just go to his mothers..dont bother saying it leave the key and pack ur ****. i dont want/need u here if ur constantly throwing things like that in my face to make me feel like i need you.

[Scintillating]

Is he having money issue? You said he works 2 jobs. If he is down on himeslf he is never going to be any good in a relationship. Its hard for tough guys to let it out sometimes. Start with dinner. Tell him it is important to you that he gets home for dinner so the two of you can sit down and talk. Tell him to leave the phone in the other room and spend dinner time just with you. If he cant make a half hour during the day for you then you will know where he stands.

[Brit0412]

I have tried that.. .. n no money wasnt an issue for him. things might have gotten tight but even before that we still had this issue...hes never without his phone.. no matter what i say and do..or ask.. but when he goes to the shop or his mothers and i text or call.. "oh sorry didnt hear my phone.. or it was on the bench.." like really im not stupid its attached to his hip 24/7.. im jus done.. ive tried talking, explaining, showing.. now its up to him cuz im just done... if he doesnt get what wrong i dont think he ever will...