[CHANDLERS WISH]

if worst comes to worse I can just talk this over with her mom. She doesnt know we're having sex but i know shes suspicious (there was one incident two weeks ago when she walked in the house and she was giving me a blowie on the bed hahaha). Plus I know shes not gonna leave me because I'm all shes got. her dad died when she was in 5th grade.

Are you suggesting an Adult conversation or expecting one? So, she realises you have sex, with her daughter. I imagine you will then discuss "experimentation" she would probably want to say, wait until you are Adults. But, are you then going to tell her that her daughter changed her mind, said "no" left the house, crying, hasn't seen you for two days, told her friends, still crying and felt she was raped? Or skirt around that, you know, " I de man" And, she said yes first. This is her Mother. What do you really think will happen when she then questions her daughter?

Plus I know shes not gonna leave me because I'm all shes got. her dad died when she was in 5th grade.

Not at all to be rude. Isn't this where you should be saying. Poor her, her Father has passed away, I am there for her, I should not have kept going, I didn't mean to make her cry. So what she needs a Man? You are after all only 16 and going out with someone who is vulnerable, needs male affection, attention and "taking" is not cool. Do you feel you may be doing that ?

Taking this too seriously, how old is everyone here? There is nothing legal happening just kids experimenting/having fun. Its the hormones. Shes coming over on tuesday anyway because its my birthday, my moms making koolaid. Ive been reading other forums and they say to use more lube/heat it/be slow etc. We'll just experiment till we get it right.

Hun,you asked a question. One you were worried about. You have been told over and over that no means no. But, you aren't buying it. She is a girlfriend. It does not work that way... What you are not understanding is that "fun" means "two" people both experimenting, growing, together. She didn't have fun did she. It does not matter how old we are, that some are Mothers and Fathers, Sisters, Aunties or teenagers.. We all get, no means no.

As, stated no one is going to reply to you here regarding the best way to have anal... And, maybe you have learnt that you "read up, learn, first" before doing something so painful to someone else. Yes, someone else.

IDK, I gage this feeling you are a bit cocky, and care for you more than her.

I hope not.

And, I hope you are learning something more from these replies, instead of just whether or not you may go to jail.

CW

[a_dub]

When she says no and you do it anyway, thats rape. Being 16 yo is no excuse and you can get put away for a very long time as an adult if you are convicted.

[shoshannah]

Why are you on here? Is it to learn something or to try to convince everyone that everything you did is fine? Well, nobody here thinks it's fine or anywhere close to it.

She is free to say "no" at any time. It doesn't matter if she's your girlfriend or your wife or someone you picked up at a bar. When she says no you have to stop. if you don't, you're setting yourself up for a rape charge.

Furthermore, if she's below the age of consent, you are guilty of statutory rape even if she DOESN'T say no. I don't know if 16 is the age of consent or not in your state, but if you intend to keep having sex, you'd better find out.

Just because she is your girlfriend she isn't your property and she owes you nothing. You have no right at all to her body. If she chooses to share it with you, then it's up to her as to how and when. If you had tried this with me, the least you would have gotten would have been an extremely hard slap in the face and/or a kick in the balls, and you would have been lucky if that's all I'd done.

As to how old we are here; obviously we're old enough to know better, and you apparently aren't. If you're smart, you'll learn from us and quit trying to justify yourself. What you did was morally wrong, and it was probably illegal as well. Learn from this screw-up and start acting more mature or you're going to end up in very bad trouble with the law.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I think you need some harshness for your own good, as well as your girlfriend's.

[a_dub]

What you did was morally wrong, and it was probably illegal as well.

No probably, based on his account, that was an open and shut rape case. He will probably be able to avoid conviction if it comes to that though because the cops can't prove he wrote that post, and any fluids have probably long been washed away in the tub/laundry.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

As you can see, I am watching this thread, as Little is having trouble with her internet.

Though, I am sure, she would have alot of advice, thoughts, on this said subject as all others have.

I believe the OP is stating that he will talk to her "Mother" and "smooth it out" .

Again, I wish that he reads these posts, with a different take, taking the "rape" aside towards youth, morals, respect, support and how to treat a woman and takes that away with him from this Forum.

OP you mention another Forum, I suggest that it is a "youthful" Forum am I right? And in that, you are getting a bit of support and not here, so that is why you are questioning age.

But you are getting support. How to treat a woman... Again... Just hoping you read into all of that and take that away with you.

CW

[jns]

I think the best next step is to talk it over with her mom.

[Little]

The next best step is clearly to show your girlfriend's mom this post so that she can take it straight to the local police, give WH a court order to release your IP address, and convict you as an adult for rape. Anonymity on the internet? Um, not when you're talking about a sex crime against a minor.

The OP isn't learning anything, all that can be said has been said. Hopefully OP will learn his lesson ... maybe in jail. Closing.