[Claret]

She said okay first but then she changed her mind and told me we're not doing it while I was in the middle of feeling up her boobs.
This is what you told us. She changed her mind, she said NO, you continued - it's rape pure and simple. Also, your age doesn't matter (her age does). She is not of the age of consent. The age of consent for a "boy" is 16, not for a girl. I'd be very apologetic to her and hope she doesn't charge you.

[Claret]

"2. doesn't matter. Anal sex is still sex and therefore still rape. I believe there's even a specific word for anal rape but I forget it."
The term you are looking for is sodomy.

[jns]

Your lack of compassion, after you lack of understanding of what you were doing, is appalling. If she was hurt, you should have found out what you could do to help her or at a minimum, given her a shoulder to cry on. You should have followed up a number of times.

BTW, from what I read from you, I would call it rape, too.

[lovexlaugh]

I'm sorry that you aren't finding much support here, and I do apologise, but I can't help agreeing with the others. If a girl says no at any time, its time for you to stop. Immediately. I know its difficult, but refusing to stop and asserting your dominance over her could be rape. If you stop, say sorry and do something else for a while (e.g. watch a movie) she may come around to the idea. Being sensitive to her needs and offering comfort goes a long way.

[jns]

Sodomy not only encompasses anal sex, it includes oral sex and other acts. As a legal definition it is used for anal rape in some places.

[skater16]

I'm sorry that you aren't finding much support here, and I do apologise, but I can't help agreeing with the others. If a girl says no at any time, its time for you to stop. Immediately. I know its difficult, but refusing to stop and asserting your dominance over her could be rape. If you stop, say sorry and do something else for a while (e.g. watch a movie) she may come around to the idea. Being sensitive to her needs and offering comfort goes a long way.

No, it is good advice just not all of its helful.

Edited previous reply
(However I believe she was trying to get you to realise the word rape) No banning.

CW

if worst comes to worse I can just talk this over with her mom. She doesnt know we're having sex but i know shes suspicious (there was one incident two weeks ago when she walked in the house and she was giving me a blowie on the bed hahaha). Plus I know shes not gonna leave me because I'm all shes got. her dad died when she was in 5th grade.

Taking this too seriously, how old is everyone here? There is nothing legal happening just kids experimenting/having fun. Its the hormones. Shes coming over on tuesday anyway because its my birthday, my moms making koolaid. Ive been reading other forums and they say to use more lube/heat it/be slow etc. We'll just experiment till we get it right.

[jns]

I'm 53 and have been 2 juries that reached verdicts and almost was on a high profile one (but I knew the nephew of the victim).

[ItalianSweetie]

You should have just stopped when she told you too. No Means No and thats the bottom line. Just because you are her boyfriend, that doesn't mean you have the right to violate her in any way. My advice to you is to try to talk to her, before any possible charges come up against you.

[Stillness]

What kind of advice is this? Youll be lucky if I dont track down the founder/someone in charge of this forum and get you banned.

It's actually pretty solid advice Harmony gave you. Your girlfriend obviously told her friend that you raped her. There's now a record on the internet that you admitted to her saying, "No," and you forcing her anyway. Your girlfriend's anus is also probably physically traumatized from you forcing her. People go to prison for less. At 16 it's a strong possibility you could be tried as an adult. In prison people who have raped girls get raped.

If you get away with this, good advice would be to stop forcing sex on people. It's called "rape." It's illegal for good reason. It's immoral. Neither your relationship to the person you raped, the fact that you were sexually aroused, them changing their minds, or the fact that you think they have no one but you in the world gives you the right to rape them. Think about it. How would you feel if a person you trusted penetrated you against your will? You should apologize to her.

[mcajimat]

you did to try to rape her without her consent that is illegal...