[jon-uk]

i feel like 1 inch has to be a joke right? that is suuuuper teeny haha if i saw that little guy i'd giggle and send you on your way, sorry!

1 inch isn't a joke - I'm more of a grower than a shower Is it that a "teeny" one soft just isn't attractive to you or you'd assume it wouldn't grow much when it got hard? Thanks for your honesty

[jon-uk]

I wasn't going to answer to this post because its been discussed to death. But seeing the negative comments some others have said, I had to chip in.

To be fair I don't think it's negative for a woman to say she prefers a bigger penis any more than say a guy saying he doesn't like blondes. Good thing about forums is anyone can give their opinion honestly

[Letsgo1]

Letsgo1, first search this topic on this forum. Like I said, its been discussed to death and many women keep giving the same responses. The ones you have received for your post are actually the first time I have ever seen such negative comments on this topic. There was even a post about the wonders of having a smaller penis https://www.womens-health.com/boards...verything.html

The other thing is you have what you have. If you were shorter than average in height, what would you do. Go around moping that you are shorter than the average guy and you won't be sexually appealing to anybody? Would you disregard everything you woman told you about your height and still obsess over it? Its the same with penis size. You can't change your size. So stop obsessing about it. Learn to be a good lover. Read the book She Comes First. Many members here recommend it. Learn about female anatomy and sexual pleasure (that alone will teach a lot about where intercourse and penis size fall in the important of sexual relationships).

You say you want to be the best lover to your girlfriend. Then why are you asking about your penis size. There is nothing you can do about it. But there are lots of other things you can learn to do. Why don't you focus on that. What does your parnter say? Is she sexually satisfieds? Do you communicate on sexual issues with her to make sure you are doing all the things she wants and enjoys? If you are truly worried about satisfying your partner, those are the things you would be doing (regardless of the size of your penis). Asking if you penis is too small won't accomplish anything.

It would make more sense to talk to her and ask her except that I've already gone over with her my life long problem I've tried to overcome. Acceptance. That's where she chimed in with the whole confidence is very attractive. Ok fine. So it's going to turn into me bringing these types of topics up yet again because I really don't know. Now I come off even more insecure. I'm trying to avoid that. I feel like I'm at a huge disadvantage once I stick my penis inside her. Seems like she can't even feel it. I really liked it when she used her hand to squeeze her vagina together I don't know what that was trying to feel my skinny penis? Talking about certain things is difficult with her anyways. Even her mother pointed that out to me privately. Sounds like you can be a good lover with a small/thin penis. But an average maybe a little above average would be a bonus on top. Ok I'll read the book you suggested.

[Going upward]

Size matter to some and to some women it don't, its not much different than a man who only date large busted women over small busted women. You will find some women who will date you and enjoy sex and you will find women who may not enjoy it but will continue to date you, and you will find women who it does not matter at all either way. But, in my opinion if you learn to help your woman reach and O then she will be happy regardless. So with that being said you have to learn several tricks because not all women reach that point the same way. But you can learn about G-spot and clitoris to help you along

[lcj14]

By my personal experience, you are definitely on the smaller side. With that said though, some girls (like me) have small vaginas. I swear my vagina is the size of a child's. So for girls like me, it would almost be better for the guy to be on the smaller size. I have had issues with a man's penis being too large and it is just plain painful! So don't lose hope, there are girls out there who would actually prefer a penis to be on the smaller side =)

[Harmony]

OP, having plenty of money will make women forget/overlook the fact you have a 4" penis rather quickly. It's amazing what nice cars, lavish houses, and expensive holidays can make up for. Yes, your penis is small, but you don't have a micro penis and hope is not lost.

My advice would be to work hard and get a good education, look after yourself physically and make sure you succeed in business (whatever your chosen profession/business interest is). Given the choice most woman - despite what they purport - would prefer a man with a 4" penis with status, money, and character and integrity (plus great oral skills and staying power) than a man with a 6" (or larger) with average (or less) income and prospects.

Make the decision to commit 100% to succeeding in whatever it is you set out to do and you'll find your success with women is directly proportional to your financial success. At that point, your only problem will be filtering out the gold-diggers.

One thing which has also not been considered, is the size of a man's penis in relation to his overall size. If a man is 5 foot tall and quite slim, surely women wouldn't expect him to have a large or even average penis?

[Harmony]

It would make more sense to talk to her and ask her except that I've already gone over with her my life long problem I've tried to overcome. Acceptance. That's where she chimed in with the whole confidence is very attractive. Ok fine. So it's going to turn into me bringing these types of topics up yet again because I really don't know. Now I come off even more insecure. I'm trying to avoid that. I feel like I'm at a huge disadvantage once I stick my penis inside her. Seems like she can't even feel it. I really liked it when she used her hand to squeeze her vagina together I don't know what that was trying to feel my skinny penis? Talking about certain things is difficult with her anyways. Even her mother pointed that out to me privately. Sounds like you can be a good lover with a small/thin penis. But an average maybe a little above average would be a bonus on top. Ok I'll read the book you suggested.

If you are determined to satisfy your partner don't be afraid to incorporate toys which are larger than your penis into your sex life. I don't know why so many men are reluctant to do this but have no problem using toys which stimulate the clitoris and/or g-spot in ways which the fingers/mouth cannot.

Mutual satisfaction is a critical component of a healthy sex life and satisfying your partner will be much easier (with much of the pressure lifted from you) if you have no problem using toys together. If your GF loves you, she still may crave/enjoy the feeling of a penis shaped object inside her which is bigger than you are, but the fact that she loves you means she'll stay with you and seek alternative means of satisfying herself. OR you could help her seek those means of satisfying herself and go and buy her one of those 6.5-7" rabbit toys and use it on her. A 7" penis cannot do anything close to what those things can do since they stimulate the clitoris like nothing else, so your size really doesn't matter here.

[DreamP346]

Ok fine. So it's going to turn into me bringing these types of topics up yet again because I really don't know. Now I come off even more insecure. I'm trying to avoid that.

I don't think you understand when I say communicate with your partner about sexual issues. You are not talking to her about the size of your penis and what to do with it. You are talking about your sexual relationship. EVERY couple does this. Those who don't often develop issues. It is part of a healthy sexual relationship. Research has consistenty shown that women who communicate their sexual needs to their partners are much more sexually satisfied. Your parnter is a unique individual with her own desires and needs. Women (and men) on this forum can give you some great ideas but the bottom line is you need to ask your parnter what works best for her. You are not a mind reader. That is what makes a good sex partner. Your size has very little to do with sexually satisfying a partner. Its more about communication.

For example, many women prefer oral sex to intercourse. They only do the intercourse to please their partners. Do you know if you partner is one of those women? Some women prefer clitoral orgasms to G-spot orgasms. They don't find the G-spot orgasms that intense. Do you know which type of stimulation your partner likes better? Can she even orgasm through intercourse alone (because most women cannot). These are very important issue to know about your partner to be able to be a good lover. If you notice, none of these issue are affected by penis size at all.

[jon-uk]

Make the decision to commit 100% to succeeding in whatever it is you set out to do and you'll find your success with women is directly proportional to your financial success.

That's the truest statement in this thread. Problem is suggesting women care about financial status is even more "politically incorrect" than suggesting women care about penis size so shame on you for saying it

[dyunysus]

OK, yeah 4 inches of erect size is fairly smaller than average. The good news is u can work on it if you want to. Query penis enlargement. particularly hydro penis pumps. These use warm water instead of air to create a negative pressure inside of a sealed tube with your penis in it. This causes breakdown of tissue much like your muscles. Then you body goes to work to repair it, thus growing in size and girth. There are many out there but the bathmate or penomet are excellent choices all be it a little pricey, but THEY WORK!
Good luck and enjoy life.