[bubba29]

His office is across the hall , probably 100 feet, away from the server room. The ENTIRE building is cold, not just his office. The university needs to get its butt in gear and fix the climate control.

If you think he can't take cold that's categorically incorrect. When we were dating he walked approximately 2 miles in 0 degree weather from his house to mine just to see me on Christmas night.

in your original post, here is what you said about your husband:

"Hubby is often worn out from work, he's a sys admin for a reseach facility at a large local university."

i am not sure what a cold office has to do with serving your needs when he gets home but it seems you are more than willing to warm him up. the man doesn't know how lucky he is. he should not take a fit, horny wife for granted.