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  • x.st.angel.x
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2009
    • 1479

    This might be a little questionable but if i were you i would buy some sex toys! heres why:

    I didnt know how to orgasm till i used a vibrator but i was too embarrassed to use it by myself so my ex partner went and bought one for me (without my knowledge) and used it on me during sex. Yes at first it felt weird but towards the end i was in a complete sexual trance! From there i learnt to orgasm without the aid of toys. Who knows it might spice things up at the same time!

    _ saint

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    • ShayShay
      Member
      • Apr 2011
      • 21

      (edit) A large percentage of women have never had an orgasm. Me included. And i get nothing from self stimulation. The only times i felt i was even coming close was with my boyfriend. Patience and passion is what i think she needs. pressure is the furthest from sexy. A girl likes to feel sexy and safe with her guy and know that she turns him on (passion). You arent trying to pressure her i know but thats how it feels to her. So instead try showing her that she's sexy. tell her how she turns you on and during sex how she's making you feel. Give her confidence about her sexuality and sooner or later she will be open to diffrent ideas on how to achieve orgasm and trust you enough to talk more openly. But what do i know. Im just a woman going through the same ********. :P
      Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 02-20-2013, 12:46 PM. Reason: Rude against another member

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