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  • Stillness
    WH Poster of the Month April 2017
    • Feb 2012
    • 3679

    Breasts = Good

    Originally posted by HonkyHanka
    They are just small and I know guys are obsessed with big boobs!
    I used to claim to be a breast man and I have typically been attracted to women with average to larger-than-average breasts. But my first girlfriend was a B cup and I was very attracted to her. (Incidentally, she had a booty that converted me to a butt man). Also, there are other things to breasts than size. I've never told my wife this because I don't want to compare her to anyone, but she has the prettiest breasts of any woman I've ever had topless. She doesn't have the biggest or even the second biggest, though. I'd rather have pretty than big, all other things being equal. The biggest I've had were also the most unattractive to me.

    Other considerations are nipple size, which way they point, firmness, how far apart the breasts are, sensitivity, whether or not the woman likes them touched, and relative size to chest/shoulders/body. One of the other things I've found is that big ones can sometimes look better with clothes, but without all bets are off. Small ones tend to hold up better. The advantage for big-chested women in this culture is that we don't typically meet naked and we have articles of clothing to prop large breasts up and push them together wreaking all sorts of havoc in the male mind. Bigger things will get more attention and get it easier. But like I told my wife, a guy with his penis dragging the ground my attract your eye, but you don't necessarily want to marry him or have sex with him.

    I know that this may be sounding like I have a breast obsession (I do), but none of this stuff matters a whole lot (except the wanting to be touched part, that is honestly the most important thing to me because I love to touch). I would have happily been with any of the women whose breasts I got to have fun with for the rest of my life if I had a connection with them on a mental, emotional, and spiritual level. And notice that my obsession is with breasts, not the size of them. I think that is the norm. Men like breasts. Generally, if you got 'em, we like 'em. Also, men like women - your faces, voices, skin, shape, femininity, personalities, smells. Each woman has their own unique beauty and that includes the beauty inside. The man that loves you will love your breasts because they're yours.

    So to answer your questions briefly: Don't worry. You've got breasts, so you're fine. Be a good person. Be confident.
    "Those sowing seed with tears
    Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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    • __s4mmy
      Member
      • Feb 2013
      • 14

      I think I can answer this one pretty well. Up until 6 months ago I have always been a 34B and I loved my breast size I think they looked amazing at that size. Now I am a 34DD (thanks birth control pill) and I hate it. I think they look terrible. My husband doesn't seem to like them any less or any more. Boobs are boobs if you have them you're set.

      If you are really that self conscious however, and you live in a country with health benefits you maybe be in luck. I'm in Canada and my good friend had small breasts, and was extremely self concious. She talked to her doctor and was referred to a plastic surgeon. OHIP covered her breast implants because of her self estime issues.

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      • Afellow
        Junior Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 3

        Whaddya mean, "only a B"? That's right in the middle for your age and build. We're surrounded by so many pictures of big boobs (and biceps...) in the media that after awhile that seems normal when it isn't. Be happy with how you are-- any partner worth having around will be too.

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        • brunettebabe
          Senior Member
          • Nov 2010
          • 133

          B's? Mine are only an A cup

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          • Rhonda14
            Senior Member
            • Jan 2013
            • 186

            Try being in the second grade with boobs it isn't fun at all. I have had 2 daughters go through it and they would have loved to just be a normal kid who didn't have boobs so young. Also boobs are over rated to say the least.

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            • Guest

              Btw.. Hi... Ur url is not popping. Also.. Have discussed this with ur family? there may be safe remedies on the market to help with ur breast enhancement.. Such a safe cream/..
              plezd to meet u all.

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              • Guest

                Thank u for being a great role model. U rarely hear that these days... Thats awesome..
                What does ur daught feel about this? Even if she is young.. She may still have feedback..
                and motivated for the fact u cared to know what she though.

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                • Guest

                  Originally posted by time2discover
                  Well first of all, when you have a boyfriend and reach the point of sex, obviously he's attracted
                  to you. But all of you! Boobs are not your whole world and just a part of who you are.

                  Another thing is, people will see you the way you want them to see you. If you start accepting
                  yourself as you are, it won't make a difference in the rest of your life. Bs are not small. There
                  are alot of women who've written on posts how they would love to be in your shoes.

                  Don't give up on yourself and love yourself the way you are.
                  That i totally disagree with.. Men do like
                  There boob toys. The bigger the better. Wheither they admit it or not. :-/.. Hi btw..
                  If ur around a guy and there r (BOOBS)
                  in the area.. Check out there face reaction..
                  the bigger they r.. The more they r horny.
                  They have something to see and play with..
                  Before, during, after sex... And etc...
                  They seem to like the bounce/....

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                  • Guest

                    I took birth control and nothing happened to my boobs. That could have been hormones.
                    Mine.. I have 1 whole boob and a really small
                    One. :-/.. Talk about frustrating. I am a woman who believes in full healthy bouncible
                    Boobs. C's or much bigger. I just dread the sagging part. however i still wont mind a much bigger BOOBS. Instead of boobs.. If u get my meaning.

                    ive seen women who unfort.ly flont what they have almost freely sort of. Yuck :-(.. They wear those tank tops that shows(way to much) of what they used to have. We r talking, possible seniory age.. 60sh maybe
                    :-/... however.
                    Hi and plezd to meet u all.. :-)

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                    • Guest

                      Originally posted by agrover12
                      Most guys say...a handleful is plenty ...so stop worrying!!
                      Yea right!!! Until they see'm.. They r so full
                      Of crape.. :-/ ha ha ha ha ha

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