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whats btw??
whats btw??
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I have to be honest here. My husband and I are married 20 years this year and I am ALWAYS the one to initiate sex. Many times I wish he'd initiate it, I definitely wouldn't turn him down EVER, but he never does. I wonder if I initiate it too much or at the wrong times!! LOLComment
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MO3, if he has never turned you down, I doubt you initiate too much. Now maybe he would like it less or at other times, but he is interested every time. Why do I know this? Because he has to have an erection to have intercourse and he wouldn't if he wasn't interested. Different than if the roles were reversed. If a woman isn't interested but is willing, guys may end up missing the signs.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Thank you JNS!! I had a chat with him this morning about what really gets me in the mood, not sure if he really listened, I assume I'll find out soon. He sort of kind of initiated it this morning, by saying "you wanna take care of business." It's a start and I'll take whatever I can get. Hopefully the initiation becomes mutual because I start to feel kind of ****ty always being the initiator!!Comment
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