[SUZE]

For some women, size doesn't matter so much .
I guess the average is around 6 inches....

[Harmony]

I had a walk around the men's locker rooms the other day.

I was pleased to see I had the biggest penis in there;

though I was the only one with an erection...

[Lady Syrinx]

I always enjoy reading when someone says my husband,b/f, "is the best" yet you have only been with each other ??? How would you know if he/she is the best? (just saying) Now not trying to lower the level of that, it's awesome to see and hear people remain so true to a romantic partner. Size Size Size ...you hear so much about this. Men very insecure, women thinking maybe bigger would be better, funny how the mind works. I wrote a book about "Players" and they are the best men (usually) a woman could sleep with if your just looking for sex. Why? Facts have shown because of the numbers of women they have slept with, perfecting their game, and of course the bedroom experience. Now being a small guy myself and just above average in size I can tell you making love to a woman mentally will ALWAYS overcome any so called size issues you may have. Now for you women like Palerider above, most men who are "Large" have huge egos, lack mental, and physical performance because they believe being large is enough (true fact) you are much better off staying with average and introducing toys for a once in a while size thrill. Most women will agree average is better. Communication, experimenting, learning together will always prevail ! "peace all"

I know that or me the fact that my husband and I love eachother is possibly the biggest turn on I have.
We've been through hell and back. many times over the last 20 years (10.5 years dating and 9.5 married). Maybe I can't say he's the "best." But I'd much rather have real love with my "Mr. Right" than be able to say he is the "best" after a stream of "Mr. Right Nows."

Guys who are obsessed with size/ability are probably insecure and trying to compensate for real or perceived shortcomings. Personally, I have a healthy curiosity about his actual size. The only indication. have is condom size. We've only been using them since we decided not to have a second child. I doubt that he's trying to impress me. Why would it be necessary after all this time? Of course knowing his specs would never have changed my feelings. I fell in love with HIM not his equipment.

[amy37]

But you can never have enough penis size threads....

Honestly, the biggest sexual organ in the human body is the brain. Good sex happens in the mind first. The mood before, how you treated her that day, touch, foreplay, the penis is secondary.

[MoeJr]

Lady sure you can say he is the best...you can say: I think he is the best....He is my best...He is the best to or for me etc. etc. When we love someone, we put them so high on a pedalstal, we tend over look many maybe not so good qualities, to always see those great ones. Sex is no different. A couple should live, learn, grow together. Mentally, sexually, communicating in all levels. When someone refers to size of a mans penis it is and always will be a preference. Some like it big others like it small, but the vast majority will agree average and having the whole package is what it is about. Sex is like anything else in life , left to the imagination. Many just fail to spend the time to think about it. Believe that great sex should just come naturally. When people have been together a long time, it takes work, in all areas of the relationship. I wrote a book about secretly teaching your man better oral techniques. That was about doing so if your guy would be offended if you critisized, and getting him down there if he isnt already. Another member here recommended She comes first, another great title about this issue that I even read myself. So size is not the issue. It's gaining the knowledge of a partner, learning what makes each other your own best's Everyone has heard the saying " Grass is greener on the other side of the fence" so not true .....Grass is greener where you water it the most !! peace all !

[Lady Syrinx]

Lady sure you can say he is the best...you can say: I think he is the best....He is my best...He is the best to or for me etc. etc. When we love someone, we put them so high on a pedalstal, we tend over look many maybe not so good qualities, to always see those great ones. Sex is no different. A couple should live, learn, grow together. Mentally, sexually, communicating in all levels. When someone refers to size of a mans penis it is and always will be a preference. Some like it big others like it small, but the vast majority will agree average and having the whole package is what it is about. Sex is like anything else in life , left to the imagination. Many just fail to spend the time to think about it. Believe that great sex should just come naturally. When people have been together a long time, it takes work, in all areas of the relationship. I wrote a book about secretly teaching your man better oral techniques. That was about doing so if your guy would be offended if you critisized, and getting him down there if he isnt already. Another member here recommended She comes first, another great title about this issue that I even read myself. So size is not the issue. It's gaining the knowledge of a partner, learning what makes each other your own best's Everyone has heard the saying " Grass is greener on the other side of the fence" so not true .....Grass is greener where you water it the most !! peace all !

Guess I misread your post, Moe

You're right about watering the proverbial grass. In 20 years we'very never even had a temporary separation. I suppose we're an example of soulmates.

I've been spoiled. He's by no means the Neanderthal, knucle-dragger that you mentioned. He's quite intelligent, probably the the reason I fell in with him in the first place. That's probably why he's not obsessed with his size. You know guys have two "brains" I got lucky, in this case the size of his "brains" is proportional


know many women here complain about selfish lovers. Part of the "inate technique " I mentioned is the fact that my hubby has NEVER been selfish, not as when we were still teenagers. He has always put me first. So, I fully understand that size doesn't make the man.

I know it probably sounds like I'm describing some imaginary ideal "prince charming." But this is who I drew out of the deck.

[LisaW1991]

I remember the first time I saw a boy's erection. I was 12 and he was 12, we had been (occasionally) secretly meeting after school to explore our sexual attraction for each other. One afternoon he showed me his erection hoping that if I saw it I would be amazed and agree to have sex. Instead I had a uncontrolled giggle fit that lasted at least 5 minutes. I had never seen a boy's erection before, and it was nothing like I had imagined, it just struck me as the funniest thing I had ever seen. My memory was it was so huge that no girl could never have sex with something that big and surely I never could. At the time it looked like a huge 11-12 inch long hot dog sticking straight up and he was very proud of it. I know that first memory is not the reality, because he was only 4-5 inches long, but for a 12 year old girl who's never seen an erection before, it was like seeing a monster between his legs...hahaha. It took seeing it several times before that I got use to it. I did think it was fascinating that boys could make themselves get erections and make it grow 2x-3x as large. I was thinking it would cool if I could make my small breasts do that...hahaha. I wrote some pretty crazy stuff in my journal when I was going through puberty and had all kinds of whacky ideas and misconceptions about sex.

[a_dub]

4-5 inches is HUGE for a 12 year old...the penis doesn't start growing until around that age. That guy probably has a monster-**** now.

[LisaW1991]

Not everyone develops exactly the same, some boys have pubic hair at 11, some don't until they 15. Its no big deal ....

[a_dub]

Not everyone develops exactly the same, some boys have pubic hair at 11, some don't until they 15. Its no big deal ....

Yeah I was 12 when I noticed a bush of hair down there...musta started growing when I was 11!