[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Difficult to know the reason but maybe porns the issue.

Studies done on porn seem to indicate porn reduces the pleasure men feel in real sexual relationships.

Every time test subjects searched for porn that successfully got them to ejaculation leads ultimately to less enjoyment of real sex.

It rewires the brain for virtual sex instead of real sex.

Its the same as narcotics with the law of deminishing returns the more you do it.

If you turn up the volume on your headphones it damages the tiny hairs which of course leads to deafness.

I guess thats the problem with pornography.

I guess in extreme cases he wont even be able to ejaculate.

All those dopamine hits causes maybe even permanent loss of sensation.

Its the same with most of our organs.

Too much sugar in many cases leads to total insulin producing failure.

Type 2 diabetes.

Same with Leptin which supresses the feeling of fullness.

Too much i Think it was sugar causes some issue with Leptin.

That leads to not feeling full so people end up with obesity because they hungry.

Similar problem with cortisol.

Thats apparently why women have issues at menapause.

Anyway thats why men should avoid porn.

[Lithium]

Yeah but in this case it was the guys mood that changed. She had to convince him to stick around till the end.

When I loose interest for some reason it can be quite difficult to get back to mood too. Maybe the dude was just way too tired.

[Lithium]

Yeah but in this case it was the guys mood that changed. She had to convince him to stick around till the end.

When I loose interest for some reason it can be quite difficult to get back to mood too. Maybe the dude was just way too tired.

[Lithium]

When I loose interest for some reason it can be quite difficult to get back to mood too. Maybe the dude was just way too tired.

[Gramkar]

I certainly wouldn't worry too much about it if it's an isolated incedense or rare occurance.

[WaveRider]

When I loose interest for some reason it can be quite difficult to get back to mood too. Maybe the dude was just way too tired.

How does a woman lose interest in giving head? Blowjobs are actually very easy to perform. If a woman likes giving head, it's a done deal.

More often than not, I have to stop my g/f before I can't control the outcome. She loves to give head.

[Lithium]

How does a woman lose interest in giving head? Blowjobs are actually very easy to perform. If a woman likes giving head, it's a done deal.

If a woman feels like she will give head for the guy to cum and that's it... well, she might do it when she is crazy in love for someone but after a while it will be like peeling of fruit without eating it. I mean... working (bj) for nothing in return, nothing back, and... yeah, it gets a bit on a girl nerves only and ONLY being there to pleasure and not being pleasured at all.
Or, a different scenario, if the guy says something that makes her mad, sad or anything that really turns her off.
Just because giving head might be a "easy" and (for some girls) enjoyable experience doesn't mean they will always find it awesome to perforce anytime for anyone in all scenarios. Girls are not machines made to pleasure guys. We also need to be pleasured. Would you like to finger a girl, be horny, make her cum with your fingers and then its over for her like... roll over and "oh hun it was so good. thanks and until next time", like this all the times? Yeah... after a while I bet you would be also tired and feeling like "horny again babe? do it yourself this time, I'm over it!"

[Lithium]

How does a woman lose interest in giving head? Blowjobs are actually very easy to perform. If a woman likes giving head, it's a done deal.

If a woman feels like she will give head for the guy to cum and that's it... well, she might do it when she is crazy in love for someone but after a while it will be like peeling of fruit without eating it. I mean... working (bj) for nothing in return, nothing back, and... yeah, it gets a bit on a girl nerves only and ONLY being there to pleasure and not being pleasured at all.
Or, a different scenario, if the guy says something that makes her mad, sad or anything that really turns her off.
Just because giving head might be a "easy" and (for some girls) enjoyable experience doesn't mean they will always find it awesome to perforce anytime for anyone in all scenarios. Girls are not machines made to pleasure guys. We also need to be pleasured. Would you like to finger a girl, be horny, make her cum with your fingers and then its over for her like... roll over and "oh hun it was so good. thanks and until next time", like this all the times? Yeah... after a while I bet you would be also tired and feeling like "horny again babe? do it yourself this time, I'm over it!"

[WaveRider]

Hi Lithium,

When women have given me head, they have wanted to give me head. A couple years ago I was at a party. I asked a woman to meet me there. I had known the woman for a couple months. We were both drunk, she more so than me. We sat on a secluded porch. While we were talking, she gave me an incredible blow job. I didn't ask for it. She wanted to do it. And she swallowed.

My g/f loves to give head. Her very first sex act was giving her high school b/f a blow job. She loves the feeling of a hard man inside of her mouth. When we first started dating, she complained to me that I wouldn't allow her to give me head as often as she wanted. I told her that if I came inside of her mouth I might not be good to go again for an hour. She didn't care. But I have ALWAYS taken care of her first. She always cums first and many times. Anyway, when she wants to give me head, which is every single time we have sex, I don't stop her until I am on the verge of cumming. Sometimes when were effing, I'll pull out of her and let her finish me with head. But I always take care of her first, almost most of the time. There have been times when we were watching TV on her couch when she has started rubbing me, pulled it out, put it inside of her mouth, and had me cumming with a couple minutes. She has done that because she has wanted me to cum. She's given me head without wanting anything in return more than a few times.

If your husband or b/f doesn't know how to have mind blowing sex, teach him.

[WaveRider]

Hi Lithium,

I've just remembered something my g/f told me years ago about giving blowjobs. She does love to give head but not always. She told me that there were many times when she just didn't feel like giving head but the guy she was with wanted it, so she did it. But she did it for them, not because she wanted. I replied that she never has to give me head if she doesn't feel like it.