[californian]

HI,

I am a virgin . But my boyfriend licked me once , he did not insert his tongue though . he did not insert his finger also . But one day when he licked me , i don't know if it was his beard or what , it got rubbed and I felt just on top of the world, i got wet after that .. I want to know was it orgasm ? But how can I have orgasm without having sex ?? experienced .. Please help here

[californian]

HI,

I am a virgin . But my boyfriend licked me once , he did not insert his tongue though . he did not insert his finger also . But one day when he licked me , i don't know if it was his beard or what , it got rubbed and I felt just on top of the world, i got wet after that .. I want to know was it orgasm ? But how can I have orgasm without having sex ?? experienced .. Please help here

Some one please reply.

[Lady Syrinx]

It is quite possible to have orgasm without penetration. Generally, women find it easier to finally through oral or manual stimulation. But if you are sufficiently turned on any sexual contact produce an orgasm. I've had them while giving my man Ireland.

[LisaW1991]

Does your BF know you're a virgin?
How much experience do you have with other guys?

[californian]

Does your BF know you're a virgin?
How much experience do you have with other guys?

Yes Lisa, he knows I am a virgin , but I am amazed that how can have that feeling without penetration ? it is going to affect my experience of my first time . I am trying to refrain myself from doing it with him . He is my first BF , i have not been with anyone else. Does orgasm feel the same way as sex does , thoe 3 seconds , you feel the best feeling in this word and after those 3-5 secs you are dead , and you feel weak , lousy and sleepy ? is this the feeling ? Since he is also a virgin , so i have no one to ask this to .

[LisaW1991]

Yes Lisa, he knows I am a virgin , but I am amazed that how can have that feeling without penetration ? it is going to affect my experience of my first time . I am trying to refrain myself from doing it with him . He is my first BF , i have not been with anyone else. Does orgasm feel the same way as sex does , thoe 3 seconds , you feel the best feeling in this word and after those 3-5 secs you are dead , and you feel weak , lousy and sleepy ? is this the feeling ? Since he is also a virgin , so i have no one to ask this to .

Everybody is different, but what you discribe would not be consider a typical reaction to having an orgasm. Mine tended to linger for a long time afterwards and I feel very relaxed and happy.

For some girls it does take a few times to kinda figure out what they want during sex, so don't feel bad if its not totally amazing everytime. If you bf is also a virgin, he might not know how get your properly aroused, which is kinda typical for lots of guys. Lots of guys think girls like and want sex just like a guy, which is rarely true.

How old are you? I suppose it really doesn't matter too much, but if you still living at home with your parents, then options are more limited than if your older.

see ya!

Lisa

[californian]

Everybody is different, but what you discribe would not be consider a typical reaction to having an orgasm. Mine tended to linger for a long time afterwards and I feel very relaxed and happy.

For some girls it does take a few times to kinda figure out what they want during sex, so don't feel bad if its not totally amazing everytime. If you bf is also a virgin, he might not know how get your properly aroused, which is kinda typical for lots of guys. Lots of guys think girls like and want sex just like a guy, which is rarely true.

How old are you? I suppose it really doesn't matter too much, but if you still living at home with your parents, then options are more limited than if your older.

see ya!

Lisa

Lisa, I am 23 .. yes, i also feel happy and feel like sleeping.. it is the best feeling for me till now .. i just love that feeling ..
Also, as i told you we are refraining ourselves from doing it for some personal reasons , so one day , out of curiosity , i tried to insert a finger inside my vagina , at that time , i had not been touched there ever , i mean i never had been with a boy . by mistake , i inserted it inside with a little force ,not at all deep but with my nail and blood came out , it was decent amount of blood. Did i loose my virginity ? but I did not feel any thing , no pain , no sensation since i did not even insert half of my nail , then how did the blood come out . How will I know that whether my virginity is intact ? I know its a silly question to ask ?Does that mean I will not bleed at all when I will have sex . Can I insert finger inside without loosing my virginity ? For self Pleasure :P

Please share your experience , how did you feel during your first time ? For info sake.

[Euphoric]

Californian,

If you are saying that you inserted your finger, but only one knuckle deep, then I doubt very seriously that you accidentally tore your hymen. Perhaps you scratched your vaginal wall and that caused some bleeding. It is possible that your hymen was partially intact and the self penetration was deeper than you described, which could have resulted in you finishing the tear. Either way, you have not had intercourse so you are still a virgin. There are some females who have tore their hymen as a result of certain activities such as playing sports or horseback riding and that does not make them less of a virgin than someone who has their hymen intact. I know some people measure their virginity based on an intact hymen and that is their personal choice. However, I do not measure virginity in that regard

Many females experience orgasms from clitoral stimulation, not vaginal penetration, so it is possible to have an orgasm without penetration

Euphoric

[BabyGirl]

Please share your experience , how did you feel during your first time ? For info sake.

Are you asking how it felt the first time any of us fingered ourselves or the first time our boyfriend " went down and Licked us "?

For each of the Women and Men on here, I'm sure it was different.
It sounds like you are experimenting on your own body, finding things that you like and may be able to show your Partner when the time is right for you .

In most cases ...You are a " Virgin " until a Penis enters your Vagina .Excluding the technical terms of Hymen Breakage or Rape or Impaling by objects that are not Penis's. Whether it is Pleasurable and if you Orgasm or Climax, also is something different from others.

At 23, I find you very "Precious and Curious".
Saving yourself for your Virgin Boyfriend is so very Sweet and Refreshing. I have a 23 year old daughter myself that is a Virgin also and I have a 26 year old Son that is a Virgin. It is amazing that they have Chosen to refrain from Sexual Activities ( with other People ). Not even going with the if they " Pleasure Themselves " . It's way too much Information for me.


I had,most likely in the Wrong,thought you were from California due to your name.
Are your from there ?
Your English is Impeccable as far as spelling,though and hopefully not in a Criticizing way, you seem a bit younger than 23.
But there are Public Schools and Classes that teach the " Basic's " of Sex Education and many of our Younger Generations , know almost more Freedom of Sex than I did.

[LisaW1991]

Your English is Impeccable as far as spelling,though and hopefully not in a Criticizing way, you seem a bit younger than 23.

Prior to knowing, I would have guessed 12-13 based on the what was being asked and how it was asked. I talked about that kind of stuff with my girl friends when we were in the 5th-6th grade. My niece, who is 12, has asked a lot of questions about sex over the past year. Everybody different.


Lisa