[JRod]

I've recently had coversations with female friends who say not all men enjoy receiving oral sex. I'm kind of blown away by this (no pun intended). I guess guys dont' go around admitting this to other guys lol. Anyone else experience this? What were the reasons? "Moral"? Just didn't feel good? I can't imagine a world without oral. Hahaha

[Magnetism]

Every man and woman is uniquely different. Some men and women's privates just aren't that sensitive. I don't get much pleasure out of vaginal penetration, and some people might think I'm weird or unwomanly-like. My favorite sexual act is to give oral sex, and I've also been told that most women hate giving oral.

What one person loves is what someone else doesn't like.

[tartar sauceee]

She's comparing you already? To other guys?

She should be thinking about you and only you. not other guys from her past.

[Caussie]

I like oral but its not the best thing by a long shot. For me I would rather vaginal sex or giving my wife oral any day of the week.

[LizziB]

She's comparing you already? To other guys?

She should be thinking about you and only you. not other guys from her past.

For starters the post said a FEMALE FRIEND not a girlfriend, and just because she mentioned not all guys like oral doesn't necessarily men she was comparing anyone. I think you're making assumptions based on very little.

My boyfriend loves oral, and I like giving it to him so long as it's clean but it does make my jaw ache, so it's more a special treat. he calls it 'dessert' hehe. Plus he says i'm really good at it hehe

[JRod]

Thanks LizziB. Was wondering what SHE was reading. Lol

[jns]

I like oral but its not the best thing by a long shot. For me I would rather vaginal sex or giving my wife oral any day of the week.

I'm with Caussie.

[Guest]

I've recently had coversations with female friends who say not all men enjoy receiving oral sex. I'm kind of blown away by this (no pun intended). I guess guys dont' go around admitting this to other guys lol. Anyone else experience this? What were the reasons? "Moral"? Just didn't feel good? I can't imagine a world without oral. Hahaha

Maybe they've had experiences where the act wasn't all that stimulating. Perhaps the woman was inexperienced and didn't know how to get the guy going? Maybe there was an issue with teeth getting in the way (never a fun experience), or perhaps, it's just a matter of preference.

A lot of men (like women) don't feel comfortable receiving (or giving) oral because of a certain ethos about sex; they may feel that it's degrading to both them and their partner, and that's also a very valid explanation of why someone mightn't enjoy oral sex. But it all depends on the person.

And personally, whether or not a girl is good (or bad) at oral sex, or likes to give it, means nothing to me in a partnership. I'm much more interested in who she is and what she's about. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is open and sensitive about herself; it's extremely feminine in my eyes. and if she doesn't enjoy giving oral sex (although I would probably try to coax her into receiving it first, and perhaps she might change her mind) it isn't that big of an issue, as long as she feels that she's comfortable with me sexually, that matters a lot more.

[rcoreyus]

Not only do different people like different things in bed, but the same person will enjoy different things at different times. Also, the same "act", oral sex, can be completely different depending on attitude of the person doing it - loving? submissive? dominant? All these are fine, but very different, and different people will like it done in different ways.

[LisaW1991]

I agree that everybody likes different things, but boy, I've never heard of guy who didn't really enjoy having a girl give him a bj. Kinda have to say, it would like saying "My bf doesn't like having orgasms"... From what all guys have ever told me is that a bj is a like materbation, except 100 times better. Sure, maybe they like being inside a girl better, but that is different than saying "I don't like BJs, I like intercourse". IMHO, I would say its very very very very very rare for a guy not to like BJs. I think its so rare, I'd wonder if what you were told was true.