[HisGirl]

OMG Lotos, that is so hot!

[lotos]

OMG Lotos, that is so hot!

That's because I like the man to finish on me but I still haven't met a single guy who gets tired of the woman that swallows. So I found this solution where both of us are happy. He still gets to see me swallowing (which I love doing) and I get to feel the warm liquid on my body.

[JonDoe]

My husband gets 2-3 a week start to finish... I always swallow so there's no mess...

Your husband is an EXTREMELY lucky guy! Some guys get all the luck.

What you described sounds like absolute perfection to me.

[Emswifty]

My partner LOVES when I suck every last drop out of him and suck on his tip afterwards. He says it's so sensitive afterwards, it drive him crazy

[HisGirl]

Hmmmmm. I always stayed away from the tip right afterward because its so sensitive, but now you have me thinking. Two nights ago after his blow job, we were lying in bed and I saw a latent drop of cum running down from the tip, so I quickly licked it up (cause I can't let even one drop go to waste!) and he jumped a little. I apologized for touching his tip since its so sensitive but he said, "You don't have to apologize for that." Now I'm wondering if he might like just a little extra attention on it right during and after he comes. I'm going to test that out-soon!- and see if he likes it or not.

[Emswifty]

I'm glad to have given you an idea, hope you both like it!

[HisGirl]

Ok, so on Thursday, after he came, instead of staying completely away from his tip, I gave one extra gentle suck on it and I did get more cum out. He didn't wince or complain, but I didn't want to do it more than once and I did it very gently. I noticed after I took my mouth off him, he was extra sensitive. When I was cleaning up, my hair brushed over him and he jumped a little. No complaints though.

I'm probably over thinking the after care here, guys probably don't care much what happens afterward. But I'm very thorough and I believe the difference between good and great is in the details. If I really want to make him happy, I should just get up and make him a sandwich after. :-)!

[Adam.]

I personally am not too bothered about how it's finished (my partner spits ) None the less the more care then the better and of course a more happy man. Sounds to me like you're doing it just right, I personally get too sensitive to then feel the lips go down the bell piece once more although a few kisses on the stomach sound like a nice touch to finish off.

IMO though you really don't need to worry lol.

[rcoreyus]

If you really want to please someone in bed, you need to find out what THEY like. This is especially true about BJs because they can vary so much. Loving, submissive, hungry, dominant - it can be any of these. Some men don't care how you finish. Some like to finish on your breasts, or in your mouth. Some care if you swallow, some don't care, or even prefer if you spit.

I hope that anyone who is putting out so much effort to please their partner, has a partner who is putting similar effort into pleasing them. If so, then you are both very lucky.

[HisGirl]

You always have thoughtful responses recoreyus, thank you. Do I get as much as I give? No. But I don’t give expecting anything in return. I don’t keep score. Sometimes he does make it all about me. Do I enjoy what I get? Yes. Would I like more (both ways)? Yes.

I have asked him over the years what he likes and how he wants it. He’s happy with everything I do. Heck, he’s the one who taught me to do it the way I do. I never sucked a man’s d---k before him. But I’m the one who sometimes wonders, would you be happy with the same blow job day after day or would you want to mix it up a little? 3 or 4 years ago I made a change and added a lot more tongue and it was a big hit and have been doing that ever since. But that was a change that I decided to make, not him. He’s an average guy who’s just happy to get blown regularly, and he knows he got jackpot lucky with this. I just have a particular affinity for this act and am always looking to improve.