[teddybear2008]

My fiance and I have been together for a little more than 2 years. A few nights ago he told me I was loosey goosey. Now he is accusing me of cheating. I have never cheated in a relationship EVER before. I believe in being faithful. Well Before we started he actually played with me down there which he hadnt done in a while and it got me really wet. Then i got on top then he made me be on bottom well that is when he told me that. Well I was wonderinf if him getting me really wet can actually make me feel really loose? I have had 2 kids and i have never had a problem with being loose until now. Now he refuses to touch and he believes that I am cheating. Is there any advice anyone can offer me. Him playing with me was the only thing different he hadn't done that in a while.

[jns]

My experience has been if there is a lot of lubrication a woman seems looser. Just clean up some of the lubrication and things should be fine.

[EricNYU]

Are you kidding me? He arouses you and then blames you for cheating? He's your fiancé so I guess you don't want to call him an ******* to his face, but this is his insecurity manifesting, it's not you. The best you can do is assure him your not cheating and get him a book that explains female arousal.

[BabyGirl]

JNS,
He got her Wet with the Extra " Lube " of playing down there . Hard to clean our Insides .. lol

Had a better Reply, but got " Transferred " to WH is unavailable, during the post by the Spam on the Fanana Post. Didn't Click the Spam thing at Bottom, but it is reminiscent of the old " HighJacked " Threads from a year or so ago .

Anyway, will post when I'm not Redirected.

Don't worry Teddy Bear, just tell him No sex until He Apologizes..

[Ashlee T.]

If I'm super wet, missionary is not a good position because for some reason it does feel looser than normal. He should not be so insecure as to treat you that way. That's like you saying, "Your penis isn't as hard as normal, you've been cheating!!" or "You didn't cum as much as you should have...you must have been cheating!". Nonsense. He needs to understand that his words are creating wounds that will create scars. Worst thing to do to a woman in the bedroom is to give her a "complex" that she's in some way, not good enough. Same goes for men.

[BabyGirl]

BD..
As usual so Eloquently put .
I was suggesting him try the Hand Job with no Lubrication and do that for a few weeks.Then give him a Jar of Vaseline and a Porn Flick. I'm sure it will feel " Looser " with some Slick on the Grip ?

Then again,I would put in the " Fairy Tale " that Jerking it Shrinks the Penis, Layer by Layer .

[Stillness]

Yep, jns and BD are saying what I'm thinking. I experience the same thing with my wife claiming I'm not as hard when we do it a second time shortly after the first.

I think that your problem is more than sexual mechanics, though. Has he shown jealous tendencies before this? Has something else changed?

[Accountant]

When aroused, the vagina enlarges as well as produces lubrication in order for the penis to be able to...enter. =] So, from a scientific standpoint, yes, your vagina is probably bigger when you are more aroused. Google "Vaginal tenting" for more detailed information.

The whole thing about feeling loose from being with another man is pretty ridiculous and pretty much a myth. For your lady bits to stretch enough for him to notice from one time to another would be really hard to achieve. Tell him to just grow a bigger ding dong.

[Trisha23]

his your fiance he should trust you,cut that relationship you will never be happy.

[CoolBreeze]

First he has no right to make such an accusation. You should address that on a different level. Second as Mahveen has mentioned above kegel exercises do wonders on the physical health of your vagina muscles.