Have you ever had sex with a Black guy?

[HisGirl]

I replied that I fantasize about it but have never done it. It's not really just about black men but being with a dark skinned man is a fantasy of mine. Not because I would want the sex to be different, it's just that I think dark skin is beautiful and next to my light skin its a very arousing thought. I hope that doesn't sound superficial.

[CoolBreeze]

Pleasantly surprised to see the vote results confirm this fantasy of mine. It was with two well hung ones, and it was mind boggling. May be it's more mental than physical but I feel in my experience it is really some of the best you can have. Apologies if sounds racist but if you haven't gone black you haven't experienced it yet.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So if someone is not getting their fantasy, they are settling. That might not be fair for the partner IMO.

IDK. A fantasy is just that isn't it? It's a matter of whether you act on it or not, and it is also whether it turns out as per fantasy or not..

A lot of people have fantasies and don't act them out and love the partner that they are with.

[Obelisk]

I think black guys in general are bigger. A few are really large.

You classify it as a "fantasy" for women. But a "fantasy" is really what the woman wants.

The same as the "fantasies" that men can have. The "fantasy" is really what the person wants reality to be.

So if someone is not getting their fantasy, they are settling. That might not be fair for the partner IMO.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Let's play nicely.

There is a myth but that is what it is.

Yes to your question. Yuck to my answer. He was not confident at all, too big and domineering maybe due to this "myth" I was a lot younger and he was a basketballer.

If you have a fantasy and you did, you can full fill it and you did.

So fantasies can turn out to be great or bad... Seems your confident man is the answer to your question not the colour of his skin nor size...

[Obelisk]

I'm not black, I'm brown. But if your BF is so angry that you've been with a black guy, his penis isn't the only thing thats small.

So the bf doesn't have a right to feel inferior? According to circus, her bf is inferior, she misses the sex with the black dude.

[a_dub]

I'm not black, I'm brown. But if your BF is so angry that you've been with a black guy, his penis isn't the only thing thats small.

[circus]

Ok I will go first.

I have been with a black man and there have been times when I've missed the sex. It was mind blowing! It certainly didnt hurt that he lived up to the stereotype of "black men have bigger penises". He was really big and knew how to use it. I liked the contrast of our bodies next to each other, and he had a way with me. I liked how dominant he could become and he knew what he wanted.

They say "once you go black you dont go back" lol but I am currently dating a white guy. When my current bf found out that I've been with a black man he got jealous and called me a ****. We ended up getting into a big fight but he apologized and we are fine now.

As a small town white girl, being with a black man was a liberating experience for me.

[circus]

If so, how was it?

Was the "myth" true or false?

How does your current s/o feel about it?