[jns]

It's interesting how people project onto whole groups of people their experiences with one or two of a given group, or in some cases, just what they have heard from others.

[BabyGirl]

In my Opinion this is Penile Racism.
No different than saying Mexicans are better Gardner's or Crop Pickers. French Men are better Romantic Lovers,Italians are More " Mafia " Forceful types, Blacks have bigger slongs and pick Cotton better . Muslims or Middle Easterners are all Terrorists .

When we Judge a Person by their Race or Ethnic Heritage, Size of Breasts, Penis,Body,Height,Weight or Many other things.
We should go for our "Fantasy Type " first.
If we have a " Preference". Dark, Red /Blond Hair,Light or Dark Body Color, Blue, Green or Chocolate or Golden Eyes . Physique and Just plain " I'm Attracted to's that come with the " Check List ". for SEX ..
The First time with that Person should be .. My Opinion Only.. A Great Experience. with someone you are attracted to and Sober and Gentle and the sex is not Frivolous

Then, when we learn that that fantasy is Mixture not usually going to happen, Probably because We are Not their Fantasy Type.

Then we should seek the " Love Connection ".
Seeking the Compatibility of the Heart and Soul.Sure some physical desires of attraction are included. But one must remember that "That Big Slong and those Size DD perky Breasts " are going to Sag and Shrivel not " get it up " someday down the road.
That Her Hips are going to Spread and His Gut is going to look like a Beer Belly ( Not all of Course, but many Ethnic Groups tend to )..

I've had and I hate that word. I prefer Made Love with ..
A Black Man,well he was like Obama being mixed with White ,from South Africa, descendant of the Masai tribe. mixed with the Dutch, but an Africans all the way .
Pure Pakaistani from Karachi, so I guess Middle Eastern top of Africa not Quite Solid BLACK African.
White,Meaning German/ Polish/ English mix. Not Pure anything..
Native American/Italian Mix
My Deceased Hubby who was Hispanic, by Country, Not Mexico, but South American and a Mixed Descendant Italian.

To Compare their Penis's, is like Comparing the Kids that I have with them .
I had 5 with,4 living to this date, 23/26/33/38. (Of course some of the men were not Fathers of my Children )

Why am I not with them the Men I slept with Casually or the Fathers ?
It certainly wasn't their Penis Size. It was the Personality,the Committed to Relationship.The Dedication to the Family and Relationship.
But eventually The " Wandering One Eyed Snake ". Came out of " Hibernation ".
With this I chose as an Insult and ended Relationships.

But those ones had a " Nice Slong " so to Speak , I appreciate the Children we have. And I miss that sometimes that I did not Stay with the Size of your Penis and Chose with the Size of the " MAN ".

[Obelisk]

I've seen posts by black guys on other forums that have smaller members, and they have it pretty bad, because the women expect them to be huge, and they are not, so it's even a bigger disappointment for them than just being with a white guy.

At least you gals are being honest and admitting you like bigger

[caster]

I don't know if I'll ever get used to interracial black-white couples. In my 50+ years it's only been recently that I've seen more than one or two so it's not something I've been around much. In the rural deep South it's still not accepted easily.
The poll was about men, but as for having sex with a black woman, I haven't, but if I wasn't married I'd be curious, mainly for what was said earlier, the contrasts of our body types.
I once went to a strip club that had black women since I'd never seen one naked. They do look exotic.

Sorry if any of this sounds backward in todays society, but I can only be honest about what I've seen and experienced.

[Obelisk]

I don't care about race.

I'm mixed white and asian. My first girl was white. Current girl is asian. I've surprisingly found that the asian girl really does have a tighter vagina as the stereotype goes.

I also think a lot of white women seek black men primarily because of their stereotype (that they are huge down there).

I'd be worried a black woman couldn't even feel me go in.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I also think a lot of white women seek black men primarily because of their stereotype (that they are huge down there).

I'd be worried a black woman couldn't even feel me go in.

Sex is primary, interesting and if you are assertive enough, you as a woman can engage in what ever you want to, knowingly. Same for men.. Though I tend to think that a lot of them do, (when younger) play but will say what ever they need to, to get their, well "prey"..

But, isn't this a tad racist or judgemental? A black woman would not feel you? An Asian has to be smaller.

You can not compare from two women as a general blanket statement. You can compare for yourself off course. And, you can not compare colour, race, as to whether their vagina is small or large. We are all different and colour and race has nothing at all to do with it, you really need in my opinion to get that out of your head.

Being judgemental about things is also not a good trait honestly, because you will go through life judging everything but based on what, and why.... We are all who we are and should be.

[Obelisk]

But, isn't this a tad racist or judgemental? A black woman would not feel you? An Asian has to be smaller.

Chandler's wish. I honestly don't know. I've mentioned in other threads that I'm around 5.5"x5" (exactly 5.5" pressing into the pubic area with a ruler and exactly 5" girth).

So from what I have read online, my length is on the smaller side of average, but girth is on the larger side of average.

I never went into my relationships thinking about how tight the girls were. The first girl was half white half italian and about 5'3. When I was with her it was enjoyable and I didn't really think much about it. I did notice I could last long, like I could go for 10min easily unless I really concentrated, and this girl was incredibly fit, so visually it was working for me.

When I met my current girl who is filipina, when we ended up doing it, the first thing I noticed was how tighter it was. The first time I was with her I was done in 30 seconds. I couldn't believe it. Ever since then, I have to concentrate to hold it so I don't cum too fast.

Being it's only been 2 women I've been with, I hardly quality as an accurate reporter of size vs race, but so far the stereotype was true in my case. That's all I'm saying.

I also frequent some Penile Extension boards and see pics of members there. Black guys tend to be larger in general from what I can see. White guys medium sized, and Asian men smaller.

I'm sure women on this board who have been with all 3 races would probably agree with this assessment. Maybe I'm wrong?

[circus]

It wasnt all about size, although that did help.

It was about how liberated I felt afterwards. I grew up in a racist town where everyone says you shouldnt date black men.

To finally be with a black man was like letting go of all inhibitions. To break free of societies restraints and submit to a black man was a wonderful feeling.

[LatinaWoman]

Yes I had the most beautiful sexual experience with an older black man. Im 29yo mexican american woman and i'm a paralegal at a large public agency. "Mr. Jefferson" is a 57yo Sr. Attorney where I work. He's divorced, tall, dark, athletic, muscular, handsome, salt n peppa gotee, intelligent, deep voice. I notice he was always looking at me, I was self-conscious about this, I thought i'd done something wrong or had lipstick on my teeth or something. I finally got up the nerve to ask why he was looking at me all the time and he said cuz I was so **** pretty! I was floored cuz I always thoguht Mr. J was so hot, too. He invited me to lunch n I accepted, he invited me to dinner n I accepted. He's so sweet with me, attentive, flattering, generous. One night I wore my "little black dress" to dinner with him. When we were walking back to the car after dinner he told me he had something he wanted to tell me and I said ok. He told me I was the most intelligent, beautiful, sexiest woman he'd ever met and he'd had fantasies about voluptuous latina women like me. I asked if he'd had sexual fantasies about me (i had them about him, lol) and he said yes. I asked what kind of fantasies and he invited me to his condo for a drink and so we could discuss this more. So I went with him to his condo that night. Being with Mr. J is the most amzing, intense beautiful sexual experience I've ever had. Yes he is extremely well endowed. and Yes im am now his significant other. I told him I wanted to experince being his wife not only in his bed but in public too. So we role played, as newlywed husband and wife on our honeymoon, and went to hawaii for a week. While we were there he actually did ask me to marry him and now we're engaged and planning our wedding. And I so want to have his baby, i can hardly wait.

[kira]

I tend not to find other races as appealing. I was willing to give it a shot when I was talking to a black guy over a dating site but nothing came of it. Personalities just didn't align and I find that is usually the case with other races due to different backgrounds, goals, and views coming from their culture and upbringing. I also have no fantasies about large penis. Been there, done that, could do without it. Even before that experience I never thought about penis size. I fantasized about certain touch or activities like good back rubs and some light bondage.

I liked how dominant he could become and he knew what he wanted.

I would like my husband to be a little more dominant, he's sooo cautious about initiating sex that I find it annoying waiting around for him to do something actually arousing, but too much would set off a fight response in me and I'd end up being the dominant one. I don't take authority or being pushed around well and I don't submit. Most of the other races and about half the white guys that approached me on dating sites caused that problem. They tried to tell me what I wanted, when we should meet, and when we'd have sex. It went badly for them. I controlled the pace of things or I quit being cooperative.