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  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    Porn is fine, but I wish people understood that it was as representative of real sex as the "Die Hard" movies are of the routine of a typical police officer.

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    • atskitty2
      Assistant Admin
      • Aug 2013
      • 4467

      I'm just interested if the OP has watched porn & been influenced by it as suggested. She is 15, so that makes it even more an interesting point to explore, for me at least.

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      • a_dub
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2011
        • 514

        Originally posted by Stillness
        I don't want to put you on the spot, rcoreyus, but have you ever in all your years heard or read of a man who had a particular preference as far as labia or do you have one yourself?

        .
        Perhaps I can help, haha. I have a preference when it comes to the labia minora (inner lips). I love what I call the "butterfly lips" where the labia protrude quite a bit. Im not sure how common this is but very few porn stars have it with Veronica Rayne and Veronica da Souza being the only two I can think off the top of my head. Oh and Angel Dark as well ( I absolutely LOVE her vulva).

        Thank heavens for the porn industry!!!

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        • Stillness
          WH Poster of the Month April 2017
          • Feb 2012
          • 3679

          So, a_dub, those would be large lips or is it the shape? Or both? And to the question at hand, would it matter to you if your future mate didn't have genitalia like that? Is it minor or major?
          "Those sowing seed with tears
          Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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          • a_dub
            Veteran Member
            • Dec 2011
            • 514

            Originally posted by Stillness
            So, a_dub, those would be large lips or is it the shape? Or both? And to the question at hand, would it matter to you if your future mate didn't have genitalia like that? Is it minor or major?
            Its more the shape but that particular shape neccessitates a larger than 'normal' size. So its really both.

            I wouldn't require it in a mate though. It would just drive me wild if she had it. In general I guess I'm pickier than the average guy cuz even if a pretty girl has what I think are unattractive feet or hands or a weird walk I won't even look at her a second time. Most of my buddies think thats overly scrutinizing but I guess thats what nakes me the only single one in the group. I just think of it as the football player who's holding out for that really big contract.

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            • Justice
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2013
              • 204

              A related question is about a woman's mons pubis.

              Are fully/fatter ones a real turn off for most men? I have read about getting liposuction on that area.

              Camel toe in clothes is such a negative, I wonder about naked

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              • atskitty2
                Assistant Admin
                • Aug 2013
                • 4467

                Good lord adub, I really think you may be a friend of mine...

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