[jns]

I am also seeing a psychologist who is trying to deal with my feelings of guilt and isolation.(before anyone asks ,no I am not Bi-Polar and was not sexually abused as a child).We did go to a marriage/couples councilor but were pretty unimpressed as he seemed to think we were "looking a gift horse in the mouth".

This is why I recommend a psychologist or psychiatrist for some situations. Counselors may be good at some things, but are out of their expertise on others.

Ever, I hope your doctors can come up with something that works. Maybe they will try to induce menopause.

[jen1447]

Hi Jen1447,I replied to you but it has gone away.
So if you go down to #8 that's it there.Ev.

Thanks hon.

What it did was scare the hell out of us actually.It was almost unbearably painful after about 5 minutes.By the time we got to our small country hospital I was doubled over and sobbing

This was in regard to the one hour orgasm? Did you only have that the one time?

But I have also realized just what an extraordinary guy he is and how lucky I am to have him.Whenever I have told him how I feel he just says,"we'll get though this like we get through everything else.It'll be ok 'cause I love you".I wish I could be that sure for him.But I am worried it will just all be too much for us to overcome.

I wouldn't worry about that. Based on everything you say, he's a good man and not the sort to cut and run.

[Stillness]

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorde or PGAD.

^Yep. This was the first thing I thought.

I saw the special. There are other women on these boards who have posted with this problem and less severe high libido issues. Unfortunately, I've never seen an answer. You can search around on this site and see quite a few posts on this. You're not alone. You can draw comfort from that.

Also, I know a lot of men and women will say things like, "I wish I had your problems." I wasn't trying to minimize your condition like that when I said "too horny." I know it's more than that. But my comment that I've never heard of a mate straying or abandoning someone for that is true. The special was a few years ago, but I think they interviewed the husbands. They were exhausted and it wasn't enjoyable. But, a man of the caliber of which you describe your husband isn't going anywhere over this issue.

[Justice]

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Ever, I hope your doctors can come up with something that works. Maybe they will try to induce menopause.

My problem is not as extreme as ever's but recently is far too much for me. And I am already in menopause, so I don't know that that would be a cure.

Ever... how long has this been going on for you. Have you seen it wane at all yet?