[Motorguy]

Psssst, ain't nothing wrong with a cute set of little boobs either

Psst, i agree Patti lol.

[Motorguy]

Yes Patti and Jenn you are women not little girls.

[Something_Awesome]

Yes Patti and Jenn you are women not little girls.

I get it. It is something I need to work on.

I just always been a girls/guys type of guy er.. man. I think I prefer to be called "guy" over "man" because it is a lot more informal/casual. But I do not use the word "girl" to de-value a woman. Though I am aware that "girl" can imply immaturity as it is a counterpart to "boy." Though when I use the word "girl," I do so as the female version of the word "guy."

If the person is older than me, I generally will refer to them as "lady" or "gentleman." I just have trouble using the man/woman labels.

Another thing of mine is I never use the word "ma'am" (despise the word, will never use it). So, for instance, if I need to get a stranger's attention, and she is a woman, then I will say "Miss." I've always used "Miss" over "ma'am." This was not something I was taught, just something I did on my own. I will also say that I have gotten many compliments from women for using "miss" over "ma'am." One lady even told me she appreciated that I used "Miss" over "ma'am" and told me to never change that

I think "Miss" sounds more femenine. "Ma'am" also makes a woman sound old.

Edit: I do feel there is also an implied cuteness in the word "girl."

[jen1447]

lol I have no issues with being called a girl in the appropriate context. (Informal chat is appropriate, business meeting probably not, etc.) I think the usage varies and it's pretty relative to begin with. I'm far more interested in how people treat me than in the words they use to address me as long as it's not anything openly disrespectful, so I don't see a lot of reason to put a lot of weight into a word that somebody probably spent about 1/2 second pondering before they said it. Honestly it never even crossed my mind in this case, so can we just go back to talking about hot lesbian porn?

On the boobs issue, while I love smaller boobs I also love natural larger boobs. Basically all boobs are good and a gift to mankind, it's only when surgeons get involved that the results are sometimes kind of gross. (And even then only sometimes - there are a lot of very nice augmented boobs bouncing around out in the world too. Respect the breasts! )

[Motorguy]

lol I have no issues with being called a girl in the appropriate context. (Informal chat is appropriate, business meeting probably not, etc.) I think the usage varies and it's pretty relative to begin with. I'm far more interested in how people treat me than in the words they use to address me as long as it's not anything openly disrespectful, so I don't see a lot of reason to put a lot of weight into a word that somebody probably spent about 1/2 second pondering before they said it. Honestly it never even crossed my mind in this case, so can we just go back to talking about hot lesbian porn?

On the boobs issue, while I love smaller boobs I also love natural larger boobs. Basically all boobs are good and a gift to mankind, it's only when surgeons get involved that the results are sometimes kind of gross. (And even then only sometimes - there are a lot of very nice augmented boobs bouncing around out in the world too. Respect the breasts! )

I seen some women take it personally to being called a girl. They like to be called a lady or a women just my opinion that i come across over the years.

I love all boobs my self my wife is a natural 34D with no sag at all as she been ask many times if she had a boob job. I mean some women have ask my wife could they feel them out at a night club or the beach my wife like sure go ahead. For my self I shake my head because if I even tried that i be removing a high heel from my groin.

[Something_Awesome]

so can we just go back to talking about hot lesbian porn?

If you guys are interested in lesbian porn for the sensuality, then try finding some "x-art" porn. They feature all kinds of porn, but the traditional male/female stuff is quite sensual and my GF loves it. While my GF and I will seldom watch porn, if we watch any porn it will be the x-art stuff. In the videos I have seen, the guys always gave oral, which is great because I love seeing a guy give oral (that's also how I stumbled across these videos).

I like the x-art stuff way more than the commercial porns, which can feel so dirty that I feel like I am going to get an STD just by watching them! But that feeling only came about after watching the x-art stuff which can't be beat!

Check 'em out.

[Motorguy]

I get it. It is something I need to work on.

I just always been a girls/guys type of guy er.. man. I think I prefer to be called "guy" over "man" because it is a lot more informal/casual. But I do not use the word "girl" to de-value a woman. Though I am aware that "girl" can imply immaturity as it is a counterpart to "boy." Though when I use the word "girl," I do so as the female version of the word "guy."

If the person is older than me, I generally will refer to them as "lady" or "gentleman." I just have trouble using the man/woman labels.

Another thing of mine is I never use the word "ma'am" (despise the word, will never use it). So, for instance, if I need to get a stranger's attention, and she is a woman, then I will say "Miss." I've always used "Miss" over "ma'am." This was not something I was taught, just something I did on my own. I will also say that I have gotten many compliments from women for using "miss" over "ma'am." One lady even told me she appreciated that I used "Miss" over "ma'am" and told me to never change that

I think "Miss" sounds more femenine. "Ma'am" also makes a woman sound old.

Edit: I do feel there is also an implied cuteness in the word "girl."

Well yes i do the same thing I think with a younger women I will say Miss or older lady a Ms. But never Ma' am that remind me of a women who runs a cat house. With guys will say Sir or Mr. Till i know there name.

I was trying to say was saying girl would be for a younger female underage where you say lady or women meaning of older age not a young girl i hope, that was explain correctly.

[Patti-here]

lol I have no issues with being called a girl in the appropriate context. (Informal chat is appropriate, business meeting probably not, etc.) I think the usage varies and it's pretty relative to begin with. I'm far more interested in how people treat me than in the words they use to address me as long as it's not anything openly disrespectful, so I don't see a lot of reason to put a lot of weight into a word that somebody probably spent about 1/2 second pondering before they said it. Honestly it never even crossed my mind in this case, so can we just go back to talking about hot lesbian porn?

On the boobs issue, while I love smaller boobs I also love natural larger boobs. Basically all boobs are good and a gift to mankind, it's only when surgeons get involved that the results are sometimes kind of gross. (And even then only sometimes - there are a lot of very nice augmented boobs bouncing around out in the world too. Respect the breasts! )

Honestly, boobs are boobs, the important thing are the 'Nips' those are what react to any stimulation.

[Motorguy]

Honestly, boobs are boobs, the important thing are the 'Nips' those are what react to any stimulation.

Yea that's about right Patti where the nerve ending for the pleasure for a women when she getting her nips pleasure. When she excited or it's cold outside lol.

[Patti-here]

Yea that's about right Patti where the nerve ending for the pleasure for a women when she getting her nips pleasure. When she excited or it's cold outside lol.

You've just said a mouthful,, Ooops