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  • sexy brenda
    Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 44

    Originally posted by sexy brenda
    I did as you said and one afternoon as we masturbated with her on a chair facing me I went over to her and just smiled and she smiled back and she opened her legs and leaned back she knew what I had in mind and I did touch her between her legs and I enjoyed it. She said to me '"why has it taken you so long?. I have wanted to do it from the beginning". She suggested we went upstairs to the bedroom where we had such a good time. We just did it with our fingers at first but eventually she went down with her head between my legs and gave me oral. It was so good and although I have been given oral by her husband she seemed to know where to put her tongue better than he did, probably by being a woman she seemed to know what part may excite me. In did put my mouth upon her parts but went gently as it was the first time I had been with a woman, perhaps I will get better. I thoroughly am enjoying my new life now. Thanks Jen
    These afternoons are continuing and we have gone a stage further now. One day my girl friend asked if we could go a stage further and bring my husband into a threesome activity. I was a little apprehensive at first as we had never done sex with the other husbands watching. Always in separate rooms, although we knew what was going off? She said she wanted to perform on me with her mouth between her legs giving me oral as my husband took her from behind doggie fashion. I must say as she explained it got me roused.
    When the appropriate day came around we did just that, many on this site says that they feel guilty by seeing another person servicing their partners but I found it exiting. We were all naked and my husband had the largest hard on that I had ever seen on him. It felt wonderful as my girlfriend began to suck me and I was exited, as I glanced and saw him pumping her from behind, the more he thrust into her the more she sucked at me and we all made sounds of pleasure. When it was all over she asked me to suck her, and when I did her ***** was full of cum which I sucked and swallowed. She then told me that I should have no worries in future of sucking her husband off as I had now my husband’s cum in my mouth. In our swinging partnerships I had never given her husband oral (as he had wanted so much) after all my husband’s cum did not taste as bad as I thought it would do. I think the next time I am with her husband in bed together he will get a great surprise.

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    • Motorguy
      Veteran Member
      • Mar 2014
      • 3921

      Originally posted by sexy brenda
      These afternoons are continuing and we have gone a stage further now. One day my girl friend asked if we could go a stage further and bring my husband into a threesome activity. I was a little apprehensive at first as we had never done sex with the other husbands watching. Always in separate rooms, although we knew what was going off? She said she wanted to perform on me with her mouth between her legs giving me oral as my husband took her from behind doggie fashion. I must say as she explained it got me roused.
      When the appropriate day came around we did just that, many on this site says that they feel guilty by seeing another person servicing their partners but I found it exiting. We were all naked and my husband had the largest hard on that I had ever seen on him. It felt wonderful as my girlfriend began to suck me and I was exited, as I glanced and saw him pumping her from behind, the more he thrust into her the more she sucked at me and we all made sounds of pleasure. When it was all over she asked me to suck her, and when I did her ********** was full of cum which I sucked and swallowed. She then told me that I should have no worries in future of sucking her husband off as I had now my husband’s cum in my mouth. In our swinging partnerships I had never given her husband oral (as he had wanted so much) after all my husband’s cum did not taste as bad as I thought it would do. I think the next time I am with her husband in bed together he will get a great surprise.
      Oh wow intense erotic story there Brenda, thanks for sharing. I have to say it turn my wife on very much reading your story so thank you for that part of it all lol.
      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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      • LilahX
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2010
        • 291

        My man and I have been swingers for over a decade and it's an integral part of our life. We both enjoy watching the other be pleasured and it increases our own intimacy (sexually and emotionally). It's not for everyone and I am alerted by your comment that for you to potentially indugle your wife with another man there'd pretty much have to be something in it for you too. True swinging is primarily about your partner's pleasure, more than your own. From the perspective of a longtime swinger, if you can't go into it with that attitude then it's a huge risk. Like you, I have huge respect for swinging couples. They don't have to hide the fact that they desire and enjoy sex with others. They differentiate bw lust and love and don't have to sneak around and lie to get what they truly desire - they share it and in turn it strengthens their relationships. It's not something to be entered into lightly and takes honest communication and trust in each other and your realtionship.

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        • sexy brenda
          Member
          • Oct 2013
          • 44

          Originally posted by Motorguy
          Oh wow intense erotic story there Brenda, thanks for sharing. I have to say it turn my wife on very much reading your story so thank you for that part of it all lol.
          You may think that I am an experienced sexy person but if you go to my first post ever on this site. (Mature Lady Renews sex life) you will find that I never did things like I do way back then. It was October 2013 only last year that I started on this journey. My sex life with my husband consisted of him doing it to me about three or four times a year and I had to masturbate at that time to get fulfilment. My life as changed considerately now and I have never enjoyed myself as much as I do now. The relationship with our friends began as a once per month meeting but we meet much more that that now (I cannot get enough if you know what I mean). I husbands life has also changed. Before we all engaged in this life I always thought of sex as kind of dirty but not now. Today is Friday and as I said in my last post we will be meeting tomorrow night and I am still going to give my lover that surprise. I cannot wait.

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          • sexy brenda
            Member
            • Oct 2013
            • 44

            Originally posted by LilahX
            My man and I have been swingers for over a decade and it's an integral part of our life. We both enjoy watching the other be pleasured and it increases our own intimacy (sexually and emotionally). It's not for everyone and I am alerted by your comment that for you to potentially indugle your wife with another man there'd pretty much have to be something in it for you too. True swinging is primarily about your partner's pleasure, more than your own. From the perspective of a longtime swinger, if you can't go into it with that attitude then it's a huge risk. Like you, I have huge respect for swinging couples. They don't have to hide the fact that they desire and enjoy sex with others. They differentiate bw lust and love and don't have to sneak around and lie to get what they truly desire - they share it and in turn it strengthens their relationships. It's not something to be entered into lightly and takes honest communication and trust in each other and your realtionship.
            Fully agree with you Lilahx

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            • Anon-J
              Junior Member
              • Nov 2014
              • 2

              Well, from personal experience, I was the one in the couple that wasn't keen on swinging. My boyfriend mentioned it a few times and I shot it down straight away, because I thought that if he really loved me he wouldn't need sex from another person.
              I actually got interested in it myself when I was reading a book (called 'Valentina' - excellent book!) and there are a couple of scenes where the protagonists boyfriend watches her have sex with other people and in one scene joins in.

              When my boyfriend and I eventually went to a swingers bar the first time (there's one near where we live), I got really nervous and nearly cried. I know I probably should have left, my boyfriend was trying to take me outside to calm me down, but I'm so glad I stayed.
              We started talking to a young couple around our age that had done swinging a few times. That made us relax instantly! We eventually got round to using a big sort of bed, but we didn't actually have penetrative sex with the other couple, only our actual partners.
              We did everything else (oral, masturbation...) with the couple but no penetration other than from our partners. I think it's a better way to start than throwing yourself straight in there, especially if one of you (in this case, your wife) is less keen than the other.

              I've also spoken to a friend that's been to the same swingers bar I went to, and she told me that her partner and herself just had sex in front of people but didn't actually touch anyone else (the first time). I think that's actually a really cool way to see if you're in to that sort of thing, because you might end up doing it and not even liking it!

              I hope this has been helpful, I know I could have used some advice before I went the first time

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              • Motorguy
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by sexy brenda
                You may think that I am an experienced sexy person but if you go to my first post ever on this site. (Mature Lady Renews sex life) you will find that I never did things like I do way back then. It was October 2013 only last year that I started on this journey. My sex life with my husband consisted of him doing it to me about three or four times a year and I had to masturbate at that time to get fulfilment. My life as changed considerately now and I have never enjoyed myself as much as I do now. The relationship with our friends began as a once per month meeting but we meet much more that that now (I cannot get enough if you know what I mean). I husbands life has also changed. Before we all engaged in this life I always thought of sex as kind of dirty but not now. Today is Friday and as I said in my last post we will be meeting tomorrow night and I am still going to give my lover that surprise. I cannot wait.
                All I can say is wow very intense Brenda. It really looks like the swinging life style has help your sex life with husband as well. This I read before doesn't work for a long period of time for married couples. But I am glad to read it's working all good for you now. Keep enjoying your swinging life style your story was very nice to read for me and the wife so thank you.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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