[dalcpl86]

my husband and I wonder how many couples are like us? I like to dress provocatively (even ****ty) and show off, he encourages me to do it. I also like sex a lot! we swing and he likes watching me have sex with other men and women. He loves for me to be his ****ty little girl and I love being that ****ty girl.

I realize this is not the norm but do people like us make up 1% of the population? 10%? 20% just curious.

[jen1447]

Nothing abnormal about liking sex. Dressing provocatively is not exactly uncommon, tho ****ty is less common. Less common still I suppose to swing, even less common to combine voyeurism and elements of cuckolding, which is what your thing sounds like.

Why do you care how common it is or what the percentages are as long as it works for you?

[atskitty2]

I have no idea the percentage but I think that all you listed is more common than you may realize. If you're just curious I'm betting you can get those stats rather easily with an online search.

[Lady Syrinx]

I know I try dress sexy when we go out within the constraints of where we``re going. Here`s what I mean. Over Christmas we went to see both TSO and the local Symphony . TSO is basically a rock concert. I wore a black brushed denim pants (looks like leather) with a tight red top with the shoulders cut out. When we went to the Pops I wore the same pants but with a black and red slightly off the shoulder sweater. He loves . I think it`s an ego boost for him .

[LilahX]

You're totally normal in my book - but that's b/c your r/ship sounds exactly like mine. We're lucky enough to be in a r/ship without jealousy or insecurity, where both partners support and encourage each others sexuality and in the process grow closer emotionally and physically. I think we're exceptionally lucky and have a much greater chance of keeping a relationship alive, intimate and happy. Enjoy!!!

[kate61]

Him watching you have sex with other men. That I won't do. But have you watched him have sex with other women.

[muffin70]

Actually - I've been having dreams about watching my wife have sex with a 'well endowed' black man.... mainly because I am kinda small in the penis dept and I can only last 2-5 mins before ejaculating.
I'd like someone to fully satisfy my wife while I watch and maybe join in?

[Motorguy]

my husband and I wonder how many couples are like us? I like to dress provocatively (even ****ty) and show off, he encourages me to do it. I also like sex a lot! we swing and he likes watching me have sex with other men and women. He loves for me to be his ****ty little girl and I love being that ****ty girl.

I realize this is not the norm but do people like us make up 1% of the population? 10%? 20% just curious.

Well my wife is like you she dress ****ty as you can called it in a very tight short dress I believe purchase in the Jr dept. if she squeeze you seeing the va jay jay with high heels. As she gets guys getting whip lash checking her out at the night clubs.Me and wife have enjoy the swinging clubs and nudist resorts over the years.

The percentage rate of swinging couples in the U.S is 5% of 345 million people that is over 17 million swinging couples in the United States that is the population of New York,Los Angeles,Chicago,Houston,Philadelphia,Phoenix into the swinging life style give or take a few others.

[jen1447]

Actually - I've been having dreams about watching my wife have sex with a 'well endowed' black man.... mainly because I am kinda small in the penis dept and I can only last 2-5 mins before ejaculating.
I'd like someone to fully satisfy my wife while I watch and maybe join in?

"That which has been seen cannot be unseen."

If you do this, you'd better be prepared to permanently take on the role of an inferior. If it's just some kind of kink for you, is it really worth it to get off on a fantasy at the expense of changing your life (and your wife's) forever? If so, good for the both of you, but again you can't really escape a cuckold history once you actually do it. You'd better be good with that reality, because that's who/what you'll be from that point onward.

Maybe just try fantasizing about it instead, like have your wife tell you how much more she wants the 'well endowed black man' than you and incorporate it into your sex play. That way you can set it aside after the orgasms and go back to normal instead of slinking into your pet-man cage to wait for the next round.

[Something_Awesome]

"That which has been seen cannot be unseen."

If you do this, you'd better be prepared to permanently take on the role of an inferior. If it's just some kind of kink for you, is it really worth it to get off on a fantasy at the expense of changing your life (and your wife's) forever? If so, good for the both of you, but again you can't really escape a cuckold history once you actually do it. You'd better be good with that reality, because that's who/what you'll be from that point onward.

Maybe just try fantasizing about it instead, like have your wife tell you how much more she wants the 'well endowed black man' than you and incorporate it into your sex play. That way you can set it aside after the orgasms and go back to normal instead of slinking into your pet-man cage to wait for the next round.

I so agree with this. Especially the quote at the beginning. Once you indulge in that fantasy you will be at the point of no return. You can't be certain that it will play out the way you vision.