My Girlfriend loves doing it and it feels great but for some reason I cant finish... Most of the time we do things in her bed. The one time she gave me a blowjob in her living room on her love seat I cam better then I ever did with my ex. Could it be that to loveseat made the difference? A sitting position, instead of laying down? How can I bring this up to her and maybe try the loveseat or somewhere other then the bed again?
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Cant Cum from my girlfriends blowjobs.
I have a problem cumming from my Girlfriends Blow Jobs. I know blowjobs can make me Cum because the very few that my ex wife would give me made me cum. My ex was not a fan of giving blow jobs either.
My Girlfriend loves doing it and it feels great but for some reason I cant finish... Most of the time we do things in her bed. The one time she gave me a blowjob in her living room on her love seat I cam better then I ever did with my ex. Could it be that to loveseat made the difference? A sitting position, instead of laying down? How can I bring this up to her and maybe try the loveseat or somewhere other then the bed again?
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Try propping yourself up in the bed with a lot of pillows behind you. Tell her you love and appreciate it but there's just some little bit of pressure or something missing to get you over the edge. It may have been position, but it also may have been the visual of watching her. And you talk to her by just talking to her, maybe the next time she's doing it, especially if she's down there a while. My hubby doesn't usually cum from BJs unless we've been doing something else right before and he was already close. We usually start with oral but finish in other ways because I don't cum for oral either. Experiment, have fun and good luck.
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Originally posted by Archer View PostTry a blindfold. One of the only "full-body" orgasms I've ever had was from a BJ while blindfolded. You can even wrap a pillow around your ears so you can't hear either; all you can do is feel, and it's pretty effing amazing.
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Originally posted by Archer View PostTry a blindfold. One of the only "full-body" orgasms I've ever had was from a BJ while blindfolded. You can even wrap a pillow around your ears so you can't hear either; all you can do is feel, and it's pretty effing amazing.
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Psychology is all important. Was it the rarity of the BJs from your ex wife that made them more arousing? No offense, but is it possible that since your ex-wife didn't like doing them, the submissive nature of her agreeing to do so made them more exiting? When you were sitting on the loveseat and your girlfriend gave a BJ, was she kneeling in front of you - again a submissive position?
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Ok little Ms. Detective here lol ....I'm betting physiology. You got very few BJs from your ex wife, does that mean you masturbated a lot? I think most guys masturbate to porn, so that most likely means sitting at your computer desk at 2:00 a.m. lol, which means a sitting position ....just like when you sat in the love seat and it worked. In other words, you may have inadvertently taken yourself out of your physiological comfort zone by getting oral while lying in bed.[FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR="#800080"][B][SIZE=4]Woman trapped inside a woman's body![/SIZE][/COLOR][/B][/FONT]
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Originally posted by jen1447 View PostOk little Ms. Detective here lol ....I'm betting physiology. You got very few BJs from your ex wife, does that mean you masturbated a lot? I think most guys masturbate to porn, so that most likely means sitting at your computer desk at 2:00 a.m. lol, which means a sitting position ....just like when you sat in the love seat and it worked. In other words, you may have inadvertently taken yourself out of your physiological comfort zone by getting oral while lying in bed.
I would have to agree very much so on this idea of yours makes prefect sense to me.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.
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Originally posted by Trixareforkids View PostLittle did Archer know that with that comment he'd be starting a trend all over the world, lolWhen out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.
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