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  • I always cum late to these great topics and now I don't know what to comment on ... DD's problem cumming from a BJ (to which my first response was "huh?), the tone of written responses to sexual positions or the BDSM lifestyle.

    DD's issue, as Jenn suggested is no doubt psychological. Changing locations or positions is the best idea if it works. It may also help to get himself "worked up" giving to his GF first. Context for me is very important and I am generally cold to any sexual act without the kissing and touching that goes with it.

    As for tone, it is tough to talk about male dominant positioning without coming across as male jerk. My SO loves for me to pull her hair and be directive while she is giving oral. I would never have discovered that on my own (I would have thought it a turn off) -- she was the one that told me. Communication is the best sexual tool in the toolbox.
    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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    • I'll admit I like touching a girl's head or resting a hand on her head and/or playing with her hair when she's down there. It's really very tender and romantic. But I'm not at all 'steering' her lol.
      [FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR="#800080"][B][SIZE=4]Woman trapped inside a woman's body![/SIZE][/COLOR][/B][/FONT]

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      • Originally posted by effy2014 View Post
        Communication is the best sexual tool in the toolbox.
        True dat!

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        • Originally posted by jen1447 View Post
          I'll admit I like touching a girl's head or resting a hand on her head and/or playing with her hair when she's down there. It's really very tender and romantic. But I'm not at all 'steering' her lol.
          You don't need to steer us,, we instinctually know just what to do ;-)

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          • Originally posted by Patti-here View Post
            Let me ask you something,, who's really in control of the situation ??? Think about it....
            No need to even think about it. We are completely helpless in the situation, trusting the women in our lives to choose the right path between orgasm and "bobbitizing" us for something we may have done ...
            "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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            • Not all people institutionally know what to do Patti, but guiding the head is also not the way to direct them, lol I think Motorguy and Jen are pretty typical, it just feels nice to put your hands in someone's hair when they're doing something so pleasant for you.

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              • Originally posted by Patti-here View Post
                You don't need to steer us,, we instinctually know just what to do ;-)
                This made me spew my soda all over my keyboard.
                That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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                • Originally posted by Trixareforkids View Post
                  Not all people institutionally know what to do Patti, but guiding the head is also not the way to direct them, lol I think Motorguy and Jen are pretty typical, it just feels nice to put your hands in someone's hair when they're doing something so pleasant for you.
                  Hon,, when you're with another girl you do institutionally know what to do,, and I don't mind having my hair stroked at all,, I take that as a show of affection..

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                  • Originally posted by Trixareforkids View Post
                    Not all people institutionally know what to do Patti, but guiding the head is also not the way to direct them, lol I think Motorguy and Jen are pretty typical, it just feels nice to put your hands in someone's hair when they're doing something so pleasant for you.
                    That exactly what I was trying to say. I may have not explain my self well.
                    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                    • Originally posted by Motorguy View Post
                      That exactly what I was trying to say. I may have not explain my self well.
                      No, I understood you just fine

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                      • Originally posted by Patti-here View Post
                        Let me ask you something,, who's really in control of the situation ??? Think about it....
                        Oh I know who's in control at that time sure the family jewels are control of the women who's giving the oral.
                        When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                        • Originally posted by Motorguy View Post
                          Oh I know who's in control at that time sure the family jewels are control of the women who's giving the oral.

                          So you're saying the man is in control ?

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                          • Originally posted by Patti-here View Post
                            So you're saying the man is in control ?
                            LOL, sounds like he's saying the one handling the family jewels is in control to me.

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                            • Originally posted by Trixareforkids View Post
                              LOL, sounds like he's saying the one handling the family jewels is in control to me.
                              Guess I misread it,, it's been a long night and day.

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                              • Originally posted by jen1447 View Post
                                Trix, what's a BFE?
                                I'm glad you asked jen. I thought it was the counterpart of a GFE also known as a girlfriend experience.
                                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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                                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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