[Trixareforkids]

it's a where lol Bum F... Egypt. ie, the middle of nowhere

[jen1447]

Okay lol - I'm starting to suffer from acronym blindness.

[Motorguy]

LOL,, sorry but I just saw this,, I know exactly what I'm doing, and my head is not a steering wheel haha...

But Pattie you know guys like to be in control. Like driving or the remote control of the TV. But in that position who have to do something with your hands it's a normal reaction to hold the head we not even thinking you know what you doing it feels so good lol.

[Patti-here]

But Pattie you know guys like to be in control. Like driving or the remote control of the TV. But in that position who have to do something with your hands it's a normal reaction to hold the head we not even thinking you know what you doing it feels so good lol.

Let me ask you something,, who's really in control of the situation ??? Think about it....

[Trixareforkids]

Okay lol - I'm starting to suffer from acronym blindness.

I worked for a gov't contractor where we produced a crap-ton of gov't publications it was acronym HE--! NCJRS, HUD, FEMA, NAC, HHS, on & on, and each one had a crap-ton of sub acronyms.

[effy2014]

I always cum late to these great topics and now I don't know what to comment on ... DD's problem cumming from a BJ (to which my first response was "huh?), the tone of written responses to sexual positions or the BDSM lifestyle.

DD's issue, as Jenn suggested is no doubt psychological. Changing locations or positions is the best idea if it works. It may also help to get himself "worked up" giving to his GF first. Context for me is very important and I am generally cold to any sexual act without the kissing and touching that goes with it.

As for tone, it is tough to talk about male dominant positioning without coming across as male jerk. My SO loves for me to pull her hair and be directive while she is giving oral. I would never have discovered that on my own (I would have thought it a turn off) -- she was the one that told me. Communication is the best sexual tool in the toolbox.

[jen1447]

I'll admit I like touching a girl's head or resting a hand on her head and/or playing with her hair when she's down there. It's really very tender and romantic. But I'm not at all 'steering' her lol.

[Trixareforkids]

Communication is the best sexual tool in the toolbox.

True dat!

[Patti-here]

I'll admit I like touching a girl's head or resting a hand on her head and/or playing with her hair when she's down there. It's really very tender and romantic. But I'm not at all 'steering' her lol.

You don't need to steer us,, we instinctually know just what to do ;-)

[effy2014]

Let me ask you something,, who's really in control of the situation ??? Think about it....

No need to even think about it. We are completely helpless in the situation, trusting the women in our lives to choose the right path between orgasm and "bobbitizing" us for something we may have done ...