[Motorguy]

ms_lorr, help us out here please. I edited the rest of your post.

Don't you believe that there certainly are many public areas, such as for-in-stance, an Adult Movie drive in, or ie) 3am in the morning when children are sleeping, that Adults making a judgement call in that regard has the right to be adventurous?

I guess what I am asking is do you believe that Adults can't be responsible when making a management decision about sexual activity?

Very good point CW along with being so very true thanks for shedding light on this topic.

[Motorguy]

I've done it in a car, but it's safe because the windows fog up!

And just to reinforce, I am not a fan of sex where you can easily get caught. And just because I hold that view does not mean I hate others that like risky sex.

When I was little I told my dad that I hate smokers. My dad turned to me and said that smoking is bad, but that doesn't make smokers bad. Now those words, to me, we're very enlightening at the time and I try to live my live by applying that philosophy to more than just smoking because I don't feel I should judge.

Again, my lady wants to have sex in super risky places and I don't agree with it. And while exposure to kids is a risk, she will be a killer mom. We've also never argued over this matter either as she is entitled to have that desire.

When I first opened this thread I had no intention on even posting my response as I had no experience in this area. I was curious and thought I might show my girlfriend the thread lol. But someone brought something up that triggered me, and I admit that my first post was a little too forward/blunt.

I completely understand what you are saying and you have very good points.The biggest problem we have in this country that people may not like what some people do it's off the wall. But make statement that it's wrong no matter what that is there opinion everyone has one. But I was raised to respect others of there habits or faults myself i can't stand pot smokers or smokers for that matter, but I don't say you shouldn't smoke weed or cigs and you a uncivilized person if you do. It maybe stupid or wrong but who am I to say it is. But now days how porn is found on the computers and parents don't put filters or parental control buttons on there computer to keep there under age kids off the adult website are irresponsible parents in my book. But to have sex in your car or in public bathroom or somewhat out in some what semi public place is no different then the parents who allows there kids to search porn on the computer it's same thing maybe worse if you think about it.

[Motorguy]

I would like to assume most if us are adults here and would not take part in a public act knowing kids are around. I don't see anything wrong with what Patti did, easy on the judgements...

Me either Sparty I fully agree with you on this good job.

[HerHusband]

Sex in public should rightly be illegal, kids or families could be about.

Edit

Jeez,,, a little common sense goes a long way.

[Something_Awesome]

The reality is that this is a taboo topic, which is why the convo went the direction it went. And to be honest, I like that. And I love talking to people that disagree with me. I get no new information from people that agree with me. When people disagree with me, they are often giving me an angle/perspective on things that was outside of my contemplation. I friggin' love that! I dunno, maybe it's the Capricorn in me.

Just know that, if I don't agree with you, you can bet I will at least listen. I am not shy about being convinced or persuaded. I just won't admit it to you that I got convinced till the next day

[Motorguy]

The reality is that this is a taboo topic, which is why the convo went the direction it went. And to be honest, I like that. And I love talking to people that disagree with me. I get no new information from people that agree with me. When people disagree with me, they are often giving me an angle/perspective on things that was outside of my contemplation. I friggin' love that! I dunno, maybe it's the Capricorn in me.

Just know that, if I don't agree with you, you can bet I will at least listen. I am not shy about being convinced or persuaded. I just won't admit it to you that I got convinced till the next day

That's what this site all about to discuss topics but everyone has to have a open mind. You can have your beliefs and that all good and dandy but we can't hammer others if they live there life a little differently then others. They call it having a opinion or life style.

[Patti-here]

I'd like to make some things perfectly clear,, for the benefit of "ms_lorr" Mr Something_Awesome and Miss Justice,, first,, there were no children under the age of 18 at this outdoor movie,, it was an adult movie, yes it was at a park, a park does not mean open area with no cover,,Miss Justice, how does someone get labeled as a sex offender when we were adults,, I was 19 at the time and my B/F was 20, hardly under the age of consent,, if you read back to what I said, we were very discreet about the matter, neither of us were naked, I had my skirt hiked up with a blanket covering us and our activities were not on display for everyone to see,, in closing allow me to say, let those among you with no sin cast the first stone.

[Motorguy]

I'd like to make some things perfectly clear,, for the benefit of "ms_lorr" Mr Something_Awesome and Miss Justice,, first,, there were no children under the age of 18 at this outdoor movie,, it was an adult movie, yes it was at a park, a park does not mean open area with no cover,,Miss Justice, how does someone get labeled as a sex offender when we were adults,, I was 19 at the time and my B/F was 20, hardly under the age of consent,, if you read back to what I said, we were very discreet about the matter, neither of us were naked, I had my skirt hiked up with a blanket covering us and our activities were not on display for everyone to see,, in closing allow me to say, let those among you with no sin cast the first stone.

Very well said Patti many of us understood what you was saying before.

[Something_Awesome]

I'd like to make some things perfectly clear,, for the benefit of "ms_lorr" Mr Something_Awesome and Miss Justice,, first,, there were no children under the age of 18 at this outdoor movie,, it was an adult movie, yes it was at a park, a park does not mean open area with no cover,,Miss Justice, how does someone get labeled as a sex offender when we were adults,, I was 19 at the time and my B/F was 20, hardly under the age of consent,, if you read back to what I said, we were very discreet about the matter, neither of us were naked, I had my skirt hiked up with a blanket covering us and our activities were not on display for everyone to see,, in closing allow me to say, let those among you with no sin cast the first stone.

To set the record straight, I thought your story was pretty hot as clothed or semi clothed sex can be pretty hot in itself.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Remember, it's the Internet World, never get upset over words if you know what you did was "OK" and, never think things are directed at you, chances are they are directed at a non belief of what has just been written and read.

Let's now all stick to the topic

My favourite place? OMG I did one thing once and my fiancé went and told everyone, lucky I was at home and it was in my own privacy of my backyard, I told him off, but kinda smiled too... It wasn't everyone just one guy who was gay (which is fine) I love everyone, but how embarrassing.

So there is one for you... Not only a fav but got blabbed about sheez.... Oh fiancé? That means erm, recently sort off :P