Super soaker... please help

[Something_Awesome]

I can't control my squirting. But I have noticed that when the pressure is building and I start to climax my boyfriend pulls out which makes me squirt everywhere. He says that before I squirt I tighten on his shaft and so he knows to pull out. Not sure if I'm alone in this or if all girls do it.

Yes it does happen. My GF tightens a lot. It actually hurts sometimes. I feel like there is a vice in there.

[owen_rae_13]

Well pull out! I squirt every time. Her body is trying to squirt but you won't let her. And 1 1/2 hours of oral?!?! How did she get you to that!

[owen_rae_13]

Yes it does happen. My GF tightens a lot. It actually hurts sometimes. I feel like there is a vice in there.

so just out of curiosity why do you want her to squirt so badly?

[Something_Awesome]

Well, I am more interested in her squirting during oral. And as for the why, well, I guess because it's a beautiful thing.

And the hour and a half was my idea. I actually didn't tell her I planned to take it that long without letting her orgasm. Though after a while she caught on and asked if I was teasing her and I just grinned.

My jaw/tongue used to get tired but it doesn't anymore. The muscles are now conditioned to go a while. I've gone well over 1.5 hours, but that usually involved several orgasms. Though I never had gone almost an hour and a half without letting her orgasm before. That definitely was the longest session I ever gave for one orgasm. And to be honest, the time zips by. I just figured by going that long without an orgasm, she would build up so much excitement that she had to squirt.

Need to experiment more.

P.S. I've even tried talking dirty to her and giving her compliments during oral (of course that means I have to stop for a second), but stilll no squirt. I did notice that when I gave her compliments, the orgasm that followed was bigger/longer. So I guess the mind responded.

[Motorguy]

Oh I do love my skill set but when you can't even flip the mattress and be dry its getting out of hand.

When we had a new mattress delivery the two delivery guys gave me wife that look, like we know what was going on here wink wink lol. i would have loved to be a fly on the inside there truck after they left on what they was talking about after leaving.

[jen1447]

I just figured by going that long without an orgasm, she would build up so much excitement that she had to squirt.

Women vary, but in my experience you're actually going about this in the opposite direction you should. I wouldn't try to build it up into one massive orgasm, I'd make her have lots of smaller ones - there's a much better chance she'll start squirting in that kind of situation. I personally squirt a lot in terms of pure squirt when I have lots of clitoral orgasms (the squirting and orgasming aren't even always simultaneous, fwiw), and I "gush" (combination of some squirt and creamy girl-cum) from g-spot orgasms, but usually only once and at the end of a series of many orgasms over prolonged sex. So you could say pure squirt squirting comes moreso from basic sexual arousal and activity than from orgasms necessarily. And in some women in can be centered around clit activity. I've done it a lot during the plateau phase.

The overall problem tho is probably just psychological, she's blocking because of the pee episode. Women's ability to not squirt is almost as amazing as our ability to do it, we seem to have a built in "don't pee!" set of abdominal muscles. The pee/squirt interaction is pretty simple from what I gather (I brushed up on this again recently lol) ....we store squirt in the skene's glands, the squirt exits via the skene's ducts to the urethra, where it normally comes out except that the sensation is very similar to peeing, so we often try to stop it because we don't want to pee on you. When that happens, the squirt then goes into the bladder like pee, which is what can later cause the squirt/pee combo. Your GF probably had a squirt coming and then stopped it, then let it fly the second time and you got the pee treatment because it was coming from the bladder stash. (There actually is some piece of anatomy in there that shuts off the bladder when squirt first enters the urethra from the skene's glands to save you being peed on, lol.)

In psychological terms she just needs to relax and let whatever happens happen (easier said than done I know), and in physical terms the best way to deal is to pee before you do any squirting so that you positively know you won't pee when it comes time to squirt. Trust me, if she's a squirter and she pees ahead of time and then feels like she's about to pee during sex and just lets go, she will squirt.

All that said, I think the real problem here is likely that she just doesn't want to squirt at this point.

[Motorguy]

Women vary, but in my experience you're actually going about this in the opposite direction you should. I wouldn't try to build it up into one massive orgasm, I'd make her have lots of smaller ones - there's a much better chance she'll start squirting in that kind of situation. I personally squirt a lot in terms of pure squirt when I have lots of clitoral orgasms (the squirting and orgasming aren't even always simultaneous, fwiw), and I "gush" (combination of some squirt and creamy girl-cum) from g-spot orgasms, but usually only once and at the end of a series of many orgasms over prolonged sex. So you could say pure squirt squirting comes moreso from basic sexual arousal and activity than from orgasms necessarily. And in some women in can be centered around clit activity. I've done it a lot during the plateau phase.

The overall problem tho is probably just psychological, she's blocking because of the pee episode. Women's ability to not squirt is almost as amazing as our ability to do it, we seem to have a built in "don't pee!" set of abdominal muscles. The pee/squirt interaction is pretty simple from what I gather (I brushed up on this again recently lol) ....we store squirt in the skene's glands, the squirt exits via the skene's ducts to the urethra, where it normally comes out except that the sensation is very similar to peeing, so we often try to stop it because we don't want to pee on you. When that happens, the squirt then goes into the bladder like pee, which is what can later cause the squirt/pee combo. Your GF probably had a squirt coming and then stopped it, then let it fly the second time and you got the pee treatment because it was coming from the bladder stash. (There actually is some piece of anatomy in there that shuts off the bladder when squirt first enters the urethra from the skene's glands to save you being peed on, lol.)

In psychological terms she just needs to relax and let whatever happens happen (easier said than done I know), and in physical terms the best way to deal is to pee before you do any squirting so that you positively know you won't pee when it comes time to squirt. Trust me, if she's a squirter and she pees ahead of time and then feels like she's about to pee during sex and just lets go, she will squirt.

All that said, I think the real problem here is likely that she just doesn't want to squirt at this point.

Well it comes down to it that the women tenses up thinking they will pee. So they won't relax enough to allow nature to take it's course and let them self squirt. And if they pee that would be so embarrassing for them in front of there mate.

[Something_Awesome]

Women vary, but in my experience you're actually going about this in the opposite direction you should. I wouldn't try to build it up into one massive orgasm, I'd make her have lots of smaller ones - there's a much better chance she'll start squirting in that kind of situation. I personally squirt a lot in terms of pure squirt when I have lots of clitoral orgasms (the squirting and orgasming aren't even always simultaneous, fwiw), and I "gush" (combination of some squirt and creamy girl-cum) from g-spot orgasms, but usually only once and at the end of a series of many orgasms over prolonged sex. So you could say pure squirt squirting comes moreso from basic sexual arousal and activity than from orgasms necessarily. And in some women in can be centered around clit activity. I've done it a lot during the plateau phase.

The overall problem tho is probably just psychological, she's blocking because of the pee episode. Women's ability to not squirt is almost as amazing as our ability to do it, we seem to have a built in "don't pee!" set of abdominal muscles. The pee/squirt interaction is pretty simple from what I gather (I brushed up on this again recently lol) ....we store squirt in the skene's glands, the squirt exits via the skene's ducts to the urethra, where it normally comes out except that the sensation is very similar to peeing, so we often try to stop it because we don't want to pee on you. When that happens, the squirt then goes into the bladder like pee, which is what can later cause the squirt/pee combo. Your GF probably had a squirt coming and then stopped it, then let it fly the second time and you got the pee treatment because it was coming from the bladder stash. (There actually is some piece of anatomy in there that shuts off the bladder when squirt first enters the urethra from the skene's glands to save you being peed on, lol.)

In psychological terms she just needs to relax and let whatever happens happen (easier said than done I know), and in physical terms the best way to deal is to pee before you do any squirting so that you positively know you won't pee when it comes time to squirt. Trust me, if she's a squirter and she pees ahead of time and then feels like she's about to pee during sex and just lets go, she will squirt.

All that said, I think the real problem here is likely that she just doesn't want to squirt at this point.

Wow that is so helpful. I thinking I am going to have her read what you wrote because it may help relax her enough to squirt. Knowing how things work helps a lot. Also, the multiple orgasm bit is great info.

[Patti-here]

I only wish I could relax enough to squirt

[jen1447]

Wow that is so helpful. I thinking I am going to have her read what you wrote because it may help relax her enough to squirt. Knowing how things work helps a lot. Also, the multiple orgasm bit is great info.

Good luck! - I think it'll all be fine.

Message to Something Awesome GF if you're reading - just let go and hose him down, he'll love it.