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  • Something_Awesome
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1219

    Originally posted by Stillness
    I'm not one for the "daddy" stuff either, but couples have been calling each other stuff like that...well I don't know if I can say since before pimps, but definitely with it being a term of endearment originating with the family.

    I feel like Captain Obvious for saying that couples with children referring to one another to their children call each other by these names.

    "Can I go over Suzy's house?"
    "Go ask daddy."

    Or

    "Go ask momma."

    She's not saying he's a pimp. That carries over into their personal dealings without the children. Then it becomes a term of endearment for lovers.

    It's just like "baby." It's kind of creepy if you think about it too hard, but it's just a term of endearment.

    Do you know how to say "mother" and "father" in Chinese? "Mama" and "baba."
    ****Captain Know-it-all, away****
    Oh, I know she is not referring to him as a pimp. I am just saying what the word has meant. The word has evolved. People have been using it differently (probably not realizing what it had meant originally) and it has taken on a new meaning for the couples that use it for themselves in private.
    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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    • Stillness
      WH Poster of the Month April 2017
      • Feb 2012
      • 3679

      Originally posted by Something_Awesome
      Oh, I know she is not referring to him as a pimp. I am just saying what the word has meant. The word has evolved. People have been using it differently (probably not realizing what it had meant originally) and it has taken on a new meaning for the couples that use it for themselves in private.
      Where are you getting this from? Because that's not what it originally meant. Couples have been calling each other "mum" "pop" "popi" "mommy" "daddy" and parental terms for a while. If anything, the sex industry borrowed. I don't understand exactly how you're retracing the word from the family, into prostitution, then back into the family/couple relationship. My curiosity is definitely piqued. Do you have something to back this up?
      "Those sowing seed with tears
      Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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      • Something_Awesome
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2014
        • 1219

        Personal experience is my back up... pop culture maybe?
        "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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        • PinkySweet
          Senior Member
          • Mar 2011
          • 168

          Personal experience?

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          • Something_Awesome
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2014
            • 1219

            Sorry guys, I don't have proof.
            "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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            • Stillness
              WH Poster of the Month April 2017
              • Feb 2012
              • 3679

              It's cool, Bro. No worries.
              "Those sowing seed with tears
              Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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              • Natalie1962
                Member
                • Jul 2014
                • 71

                Oh I love a man making grunting noises during intercourse. It makes me feel likes he's really, really enjoying himself and it goes back to our animal nature of pure, raw sex. I especially like the final grunt and thrust as he makes his release inside of me.

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                • Lovcookie
                  Veteran Member
                  • May 2010
                  • 222

                  I would hope the woman loves her man to express his pleasure. For me it depends who I am with. I am generally not a loud lover and for the most part control my verbal expression. Sometimes the orgasm hits a new height and I just let it all go. My Girl friends says it is very exciting when I have moaned louder longer expressing my release. She is for the most part a low volume subtle moaner but depending on the situation can be loud (but usually not). On the other hand my GF's friend who is very loud moaner (even cries or seems like it, so loud at times you think holly crap) got up tight that I was always lasting too long and not releasing. She actually said I was too quiet. Recently I understood she wanted me to sometimes have the release first and just let it all go. I did just that. She loved it. Over all woman are much more expressive in volume then men so I would think most women would want the man to express his pleasure too. Again though I am usually quiet I would get insulted if I was told to keep it down.

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                  • kira
                    Veteran Member
                    • Feb 2008
                    • 986

                    I don't notice that much. I suppose a little noise is helpful. I had to teach myself to make noise. Instinct is to remain quiet. Now sometimes I think I get a little loud but guys seem to all like noise. As long as the neighbors can't hear it then whatever. I no longer have to sneak around while my stepdad is asleep.

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                    • calibri~
                      Veteran Member
                      • May 2014
                      • 484

                      I for one would appreciate at least some kind of positive feedback noises! It's a bit disconcerting when your partner is silent and expressionless during sex....
                      “...choose to believe in your own myth
                      your own glamour
                      your own spell
                      a young woman who does this
                      (even if she is just pretending)
                      has everything....”
                      ― Francesca Lia Block, How to (Un)cage a Girl

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