[Motorguy]

How do I convince my husband of 20 years to be more gentle when fingering me during sex. It always hurts and then I end up with a yeast infection afterwards. I also do not orgasm at all if ever. I am very sexual with my husband, and I have prevented him from using his fingers a few times, but every time he uses his fingers he is a little rough. Which I like it that way but nut with his fingers, I have even told him during sex to be gentle, but it never seems to work. Now I am sitting in a tub, hurting from his fingering me over a few days ago. I am lost need help. I use a vibrator sometimes and it does not burn as bad his fingers do. I am also prone to yeast infections, please help.

Well Blue eye you need to set some grown rules down with your husband and tell him straight out that he's hurting you with his fingers. Plus that you are getting yeast infect with his fingering like he is. You need to tell him point blank no more fingering me till you can be more gentle with my vagina period. Maybe he will get the idea you done going through this every time. You cut the supply he will learn you not playing games plus have him wear latex gloves if you ever allow him to finger you again that will stop the yeast infection.