[FrustratedHusband]

That's such a shame. Is there any chance at all you can show her posts from women and men on here (I'm guessing not) that show it's actually quite a common thing for a heterosexual man to do? Has she not tasted herself on you? It's no different.

No she's never tasted herself on me. She refuses to kiss me after I perform oral sex on her. She has been quite rude about it, insisting that I go brush my teeth before we continue to sex. And there is no way she would perform oral sex on me after sex. Heck she won't perform oral sex on me unless I'm wearing a condom and even then it's pretty rare.

[Romy]

No she's never tasted herself on me. She refuses to kiss me after I perform oral sex on her. She has been quite rude about it, insisting that I go brush my teeth before we continue to sex. And there is no way she would perform oral sex on me after sex. Heck she won't perform oral sex on me unless I'm wearing a condom and even then it's pretty rare.

I really feel for you. I can understand why you chose the name you did.

[Patti-here]

No she's never tasted herself on me. She refuses to kiss me after I perform oral sex on her. She has been quite rude about it, insisting that I go brush my teeth before we continue to sex. And there is no way she would perform oral sex on me after sex. Heck she won't perform oral sex on me unless I'm wearing a condom and even then it's pretty rare.

Didn't you date and have sex with your wife before you married her, was she the same before you married her.

[effy2014]

That's how our relationship is - keeping an open mind, never judging and trusting each other. He has never forced me to do anything.

Those are the best "rules" in the bedroom -- being nonjudgmental and never ever forcing (and that includes pleading and whining) your partner to do anything. There are so many roads to sexual pleasure, a couple should be able to pick several upon which they both agree. I greatly admire your husband.

[effy2014]

I would gladly clean up my wife after sex but if I ever suggested it she would accuse me of being gay.

FH, this is the "advanced course". You need to break down societal/family/cultural barriers slowly in a relationship. Pick something easy to start with and "show her" how fun it can be. Baby steps. From your other posts, your wife needs to work on overcoming these barriers to a more normal sex life. I wish you the best of luck.

[Motorguy]

I wouldn't want or allow any man to cum on my face but when the relationship is as intimate as ours I love occasionally asking my man to do it. He thinks I have a beautiful face and after he has cum on it we look in the mirror - him standing behind me, pulling my hair aside and kissing my neck and it's a real turn on. We will then proceed to kiss and I will rub my face over his face then both of us will lick the cum off each other's faces.....honestly it's a really sensual act for us. Holding each other's face gently as we clean it up.....we love it. Hope this wasn't too much information and hope you don't think we're strange

Not at all sounds like a good fun sexually time Romy. You really get into the fun and all is this some kind of fantasy acting out a porn movie taking it on the face Romy.

[Motorguy]

No she's never tasted herself on me. She refuses to kiss me after I perform oral sex on her. She has been quite rude about it, insisting that I go brush my teeth before we continue to sex. And there is no way she would perform oral sex on me after sex. Heck she won't perform oral sex on me unless I'm wearing a condom and even then it's pretty rare.

I would be frustrated as well this. I could not live like this it would be a deal breaker for me or this issue would have to be dealt with talking or counseling or nothing else.

[FrustratedHusband]

Didn't you date and have sex with your wife before you married her, was she the same before you married her.

Of course we dated, it wasn't an arranged marriage. But she was different when we were dating, had much more of an interest in sex. But that all stopped pretty much right after the honeymoon.

[Patti-here]

There's an old joke about why women change after they get married ,I don't know if it's fitting or not though.

[305]

Well after reading all of these messages I finally asked my man to "clean me up" lol it sounds a bit silly saying it...but anyway's ...I have to say that he enjoyed it! not sure if I should be okay with it but I enjoyed it lol