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  • effy2014
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1777

    Context is so important. When I see facials in porn, it looks incredibly degrading. However, in a relationship, it is so important to have the freedom to explore. I admire Romy for having the courage to find new ways to pleasure herself and her partner. There is always a risk that your partner may react poorly. This was a great example of keeping an open mind.
    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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    • jen1447
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 2380

      Plus, she did it on her terms and 'owned' it (made the call, etc.) Romy rocks.

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      • Romy
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2014
        • 339

        Originally posted by effy2014
        Context is so important. When I see facials in porn, it looks incredibly degrading. However, in a relationship, it is so important to have the freedom to explore. I admire Romy for having the courage to find new ways to pleasure herself and her partner. There is always a risk that your partner may react poorly. This was a great example of keeping an open mind.
        That's how our relationship is - keeping an open mind, never judging and trusting each other. He has never forced me to do anything. I agree that in porn it looks totally degrading but in the context of how it happens for us in a loving relationship it's not degrading at all. It's not something we do on a regular basis. Love to mix things up and keep stuff like that exciting for us.

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        • Romy
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 339

          Originally posted by jen1447
          Plus, she did it on her terms and 'owned' it (made the call, etc.) Romy rocks.
          And that's the thing Jen, I think because I made the call it takes away the degrading bit and it's with someone I love and who loves me. I just wouldn't do it if I felt anything bad about it.

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          • jen1447
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2013
            • 2380

            I understand, and I think the same can be said of a lot of other things. Anal comes to mind ....in itself it seems a bit invasive and one-sided, but if a woman takes control and asks for it (or demands it, or orders it, etc.), everything changes. You're definitely a sexual progressive Romy. Love it!

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            • Romy
              Veteran Member
              • Jan 2014
              • 339

              Originally posted by jen1447
              I understand, and I think the same can be said of a lot of other things. Anal comes to mind ....in itself it seems a bit invasive and one-sided, but if a woman takes control and asks for it (or demands it, or orders it, etc.), everything changes. You're definitely a sexual progressive Romy. Love it!
              You're so right Jen about the whole anal thing. It too can be deemed as degrading. It definitely comes down to what context it's all happening in

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              • bootsie
                Senior Member
                • May 2013
                • 154

                Originally posted by Romy
                I wasn't able to edit my post.....I didn't mean to imply that I walk around with cum dried up all over my face. Just other parts of my body that cannot be seen and I don't do it all the time. He on the other hand has gone to work on the odd occasion with my lady juices over his face.....
                Romy,...I do what your guy does.I love going to work,doctor's appointments and other places with the woman I have had sex with at that time juices on my face,my penis and their scent on me.I love doing it,because it reminds me what a enjoyable time I just had.

                I hear that there are some women who uses a dab of their juices behind their ears as perfume when they go out.Is that true?

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                • FrustratedHusband
                  Member
                  • May 2014
                  • 13

                  I would gladly clean up my wife after sex but if I ever suggested it she would accuse me of being gay.

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                  • Romy
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jan 2014
                    • 339

                    Originally posted by FrustratedHusband
                    I would gladly clean up my wife after sex but if I ever suggested it she would accuse me of being gay.
                    That's such a shame. Is there any chance at all you can show her posts from women and men on here (I'm guessing not) that show it's actually quite a common thing for a heterosexual man to do? Has she not tasted herself on you? It's no different.

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                    • Something_Awesome
                      Veteran Member
                      • Apr 2014
                      • 1219

                      Originally posted by Patti-here
                      What are you 'trying' to say here Something ?
                      More typos... Stupid iPad...

                      Anyway, found out today that my GF's EX used to cum on her feet then he would consume his cum off her feet.
                      "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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