[effy2014]

I have a question that will make me seem completely ignorant. What would "just F anymore" mean between two women if it's not going down on each other?

I understand that there are strap-ons, etc., but is that the type of activity you mean? Like I said, I hate to sound stupid but ..........

[jen1447]

Pretty sure that's what she means, yeah.

[Patti-here]

I have a question that will make me seem completely ignorant. What would "just F anymore" mean between two women if it's not going down on each other?

I understand that there are strap-ons, etc., but is that the type of activity you mean? Like I said, I hate to sound stupid but ..........

Ooh you don't sound stupud effy,, By "F' that's what I mean, a strapon, but that's not what went on this morning, it was chow time and I was the main course

[rcoreyus]

OK, hoping not to offend anyone. It seems strapons are pretty popular with women having sex with other women. So what is it that attracts you to other women. Is it the rest of the body, the face, the behavior? Would someone who was female in every other way but had a penis be attractive?

Also, sorry for the naive question, but when you are using a strapon, I can see the "passive" partner (the one being Fked), getting pleasure, but is there physical pleasure for the active one, or just (but very important) the psychological fun. If the second, do you generally get your physical satisfaction some other way?

I'm in no way trying to diminish the incredible enjoyment of driving your partner wild with pleasure....

[Patti-here]

I'd say the one using the strapon get's a psychological pleasure but I've never been able to master that technique, so Im the catcher, never the pitcher, when it comes to strapons.

[jen1447]

It's definitely a power trip type thing, and like you said, the pleasure of pleasuring your partner. There's also a fair amount of sexual role-reversal taboo wrapped up in there I'm pretty sure ....mixed signals can actually be pretty erotic in the right context, as well as masculinization/feminization in quirky applications and amounts.

They do make some models that have a part that's inserted in the vagina that's supposed to pleasure the wearer (check out Feeldoe) ....don't care for them tho. A nice stable, secure outfit is most important for good performance, which is itself the most important thing. People who are very serious about this (like me ) actually get them professionally fitted.

[Patti-here]

Thanks for the help jen

[Patti-here]

How I go about my end of the bargen..

a) don't stick to the same thing for too long... just like a BJ, things can get boring if it's repetitive.
and
b) don't go right for the clit right away... warm her up first by hitting other areas.
While not foolproof, here's my usual 'plan of attack'...
1) Kiss from the neck down to her feet...
2) Work my way back up to her knees and slowly and sensually start kissing her inner thighs
3)'torture' her by go around and around her pubic region without actually licking her puss.
4) When she can't take it anymore, give her one LONG lick right up the middle.
5) Then I trace her inner/outer lips with my tongue.
6) Next I start to slowly circle her clit with the flat of my tongue... then I go faster and use more of the tip.
7)If she likes it, I might work in a finger or 2 along the top of puss right now...
8) When she's really getting going now, I'll start to use my upper lip and nose to put more pressure down on her pubic region.
9) When I know she's getting 'close', I kinda just 'let it all hang out' and grind her with my tongue/face until she blows.
10) But don't just quit now... i usually kinda reverse the steps that I just took. ie) slow down, retrace her lips, kiss her thighs, and work my way back up to her neck and enjoy the look of amazement on her face! LOL!

[jen1447]

That's pretty good Patti-Pie. There's nothing quite like a woman who's got it down.

[Patti-here]

That's pretty good Patti-Pie. There's nothing quite like a woman who's got it down.

I usually get a good reaction using that technique