Over the weekend I forced the conversation again, and examined to her that the current situation isn't good enough and that I expect her to out in some effort to change. She took it the wrong way to begin with, thought that I was being selfish. We talked through the issues more and I explained that I wanted her to enjoy it and want it as well and that I want to begin by changing the quality rather than the quantity.
I think it was very confronting for her to be challenged like this and I made it clear that I don't accept that she just doesn't like sex because I know that she has in the past.
After things calmed down we had mind blowing sex. First she offered to 69 but asked me to wear a condom. I refused and told her that she needs to get used to my fluids just like I taste hers. She got a little down about that but a couple of minutes later she suggested we play a game. I was to keep my eyes closed, no peeking, no touching unless she directed it.
With my hands behind my head and my eyes closed, she proceeded to tease me to the point that I almost came without her even touching my penis. Then she took me inside her cowgirl style, my eyes still closed and no hands and she rode me until we had simultaneous orgasms. We've only had simultaneous orgasms once previously and this was just incredible.
Afterwards she leaned down and whispered in my ear that her fantasy is being in control. My mind was blown.
I don't expect that things have been magically fixed but I told her that she has now proved me correct. She can love sex and she does have at least one fantasy. Now I really want to keep the momentum going.
I think it was very confronting for her to be challenged like this and I made it clear that I don't accept that she just doesn't like sex because I know that she has in the past.
After things calmed down we had mind blowing sex. First she offered to 69 but asked me to wear a condom. I refused and told her that she needs to get used to my fluids just like I taste hers. She got a little down about that but a couple of minutes later she suggested we play a game. I was to keep my eyes closed, no peeking, no touching unless she directed it.
With my hands behind my head and my eyes closed, she proceeded to tease me to the point that I almost came without her even touching my penis. Then she took me inside her cowgirl style, my eyes still closed and no hands and she rode me until we had simultaneous orgasms. We've only had simultaneous orgasms once previously and this was just incredible.
Afterwards she leaned down and whispered in my ear that her fantasy is being in control. My mind was blown.
I don't expect that things have been magically fixed but I told her that she has now proved me correct. She can love sex and she does have at least one fantasy. Now I really want to keep the momentum going.
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