[Patti-here]

Since my husband has more or less approved of me having sex with my girlfriend Kiyomi, I can't help but wonder if he would like to watch.

I'm sure he would Hon, but sometimes lines have to be drawn.

[effy2014]

Since my husband has more or less approved of me having sex with my girlfriend Kiyomi, I can't help but wonder if he would like to watch.

I'll be the is waiting for an invitation. Based on your writings, I'm not sure how comfortable Kiyomi would feel.

[effy2014]

Not in my 'real' life im not S.A. so you'd have to settle for me and my Red haired G/F.

Hardly a "settle" Patti. You are one of the sweetest people I have met, in real or electronic life.

[jen1447]

So the question is "If you knew beforehand there was no chance of you joining in, would you watch anyway ?" I'm more curious about why you'd ask that than the answers. But I guess my answer would be sure, why not? I assume I can touch myself ....

[Patti-here]

Why I asked ?? Just curious to see what the guys would say, I'm guessing they'd wanna at least watch..

And sure you could 'touch' yourself.

[JonDoe]

Being able to watch two women in person, but not being able to touch them or otherwise join in could go either way really. There are so many factors that come to mind initially.

If it was a seductive tease from two women that I was very much attracted too that would eventually (after one or a few occurrences) lead to me joining in, they hells yeah, sign me up. If it was two women that wanted me to watch for their sole benefit, but they were not in any way attracted to me or vice versa, then almost certainly not.

I've had the opportunity to watch two women go at it, without being able to touch, but that was at bachelor parties, which does absolutely nothing for me. There is zero arousal factor in that for me, especially with a room full of drunk guys salivating on themselves, not to mention paying for the experiences.

Strip clubs have always been the same for me. I'm just not aroused by any woman that so blatantly wants me for my money regardless of whether she is drop-dead gorgeous or not. Don't get me wrong, I like eye candy as much as the next guy, but I'm not physically aroused in that setting.

I've been with two women on occasion, which were awesome experiences, but I was generally the center of attention. Any seductive teasing was icing on the cake. YUM!!!

[Patti-here]

I just thought it would be a natural instinct for a guy to watch two woman having sex with each other, but not being a man, I can't put myself in his place,

[JonDoe]

I just thought it would be a natural instinct for a guy to watch two woman having sex with each other, but not being a man, I can't put myself in his place.

In general, yes, but the specifics matter as I shared in my previous post.

However, now that I think about it more, there are other circumstances that I would enjoy it even knowing that I would not be involved. For example, I was partying with some married friends earlier today. All above average attractive women, some even more so. I absolutely would have watched a few of these women get it on, and loved every minute of it, provided I was certain that it would not jeopardize our friendships. I should have some good dreams tonight!

[Patti-here]

Why should it jeopardize your friendships ??

[JonDoe]

Why should it jeopardize your friendships ??

Most people aren't as nearly as open-minded. My wife would probably be ****ed, as would my friends' husbands. Not too many open-minded people in my circle of friends.