[Something_Awesome]

Patti, if you were recruited, you could negotiate for them to give her a job as well. My cousin did that for his wife. He said if you want me, you also gotta take her. And the company did just that!

[Patti-here]

Patti, if you were recruited, you could negotiate for them to give her a job as well. My cousin did that for his wife. He said if you want me, you also gotta take her. And the company did just that!

She's not a Ski instructor S.A. I am. and that's what they are looking for, she's a business manager, so she was in charge of the Pub, where we lived and worked, it's better all the way around this way, money isn't all that important to me, my G/F is...

[Something_Awesome]

Roger.

Sounds like you made the best choice then. You will sleep well now! W/B Patti!

[Patti-here]

Thank you S.A.,, we're not back home yet, but in a day and a half we will be, and life can go back to normal, well if you can call my life normal that is

[jen1447]

Sounds like it's for the best. Plus we don't have to go without you for a month!

[Patti-here]

No Sugar, i'll be home in about 6 hours, however I've become none relative S.A. is writing your life story LOL..

[effy2014]

It was a very kind and selfless act, Patti. Money may not be the motivation in your life, but you also need job satisfaction. Working in a pub in summer is not nearly as satisfying to you as ski instructing all year round. Love is great reason to move back now, but you should consider a long term strategy. Maybe your GF can upgrade her skill set where you are now (ie classes) to be more employable in Colorado at the next opening.

[Something_Awesome]

I dunno effy, I did something similar to what Patti just did and I don't regret it!

[Patti-here]

It was a very kind and selfless act, Patti. Money may not be the motivation in your life, but you also need job satisfaction. Working in a pub in summer is not nearly as satisfying to you as ski instructing all year round. Love is great reason to move back now, but you should consider a long term strategy. Maybe your GF can upgrade her skill set where you are now (ie classes) to be more employable in Colorado at the next opening.

I did what I did for my G/F effy, I'm not important, she is.

[effy2014]

I did what I did for my G/F effy, I'm not important, she is.

You are BOTH important. I am sure that she feels the same about you. This is something I would say to my daughter -- grow together, don't stunt your own growth for anyone. As I wrote, there are ways to become more marketable so the two of you can reach your goals together.