[jilljames8184]

I am a married woman in my mid 50s. Been married over twenty years. Husband is lacking in the private parts, but loaded in the wallet if you know what I mean. I had a very active sex life before we met. I came to the conclusion that I probably needed his big wallet more than I needed the big lovers I had been used to getting. Sex has been pretty boring since marriage. I had lost my sex drive. We live in a college town and my husband has some connections on campus with his old fraternity. He got one of the guys to come over a while back to help with some lawn work. The young guy looked to be around 19 or 20 and not very handsome and kind of thin. He spent two days helping my husband. He reminded me of a boyfriend I had before I met my husband. I began to get urges and feelings I hadn't had for a long time. My husband knows about my past and I guess he caught me starring at the guy over the weekend. After sex a couple of weeks later my husband ask me about the guy. I have always been honest and told my husband my feelings. He told me to go for it as long ad there was something in it for him. The something turned out to be a daily blowjob. Something I usually don't do, but he loves more than regular sex. He says it is quicker and reaches the same goal. I guess the ability to bargain is how his wallet got so full. To make a long story short, we did agree. The young guy comes over ounce a week for me and I give my husband a blow job each day. The young guy is not huge, but much bigger than my husband. And he can last for ever. My husband seems to be the happiest he has ever been. I am feeling fulfilled like I was before marriage. My husband even watches sometimes and says we should have started this a long time ago. I guess I am just a sex starved old married woman that found the fountain of youth. I don't think it is wrong because my husband and I both agreed to the arrangement. However, I would like to know how other people feel about the arrangement. Would like responses from both males and females.

[bubba29]

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[Stillness]

I know you're not supposed to answer a question with a question, but why does it matter to you what others think? If everyone here disapproved would you stop? If everyone approved would you feel more justified?

[Baboy]

...Husband is lacking in the private parts, but loaded in the wallet if you know what I mean. ... I don't think it is wrong because my husband and I both agreed to the arrangement. However, I would like to know how other people feel about the arrangement. Would like responses from both males and females.

Assuming, without deciding, that we are getting the straight goods here (and after the Patti-here fiasco my willingness to take all as it seems is somewhat diminished), like Stillness, I have to wonder why in the world you would care what others think. I have never much cared what others think about my relationships. Where consenting adults are involved and no one is being deceived or otherwise hurt, it should matter not a whit what others think. If I were to care, it would be as to what close friends and family might think. Soliciting opinion from some anonymous bunch on an internet forum would seem rather pointless. Perhaps the only benefit might be that you'll receive some honest assessments, whereas friends and family might be more reticent to speak plainly, so as not to offend. At the same time, here you might receive views from complete fakers who are here only as trolls or driven by mental illness.

Since you asked how others view the "arrangement", all I can say is that from my perspective, it sounds perfectly horrible. You are with your husband for his wallet for starters. My disdain for that is boundless. I'll take it that he knows exactly why you are with him, he accepts and he's content.

Next, your marriage is devoid of any sexual contentment with your husband. Of recent advent, you give him a daily bj, not because you want to or with joy, but as payment for permission to have the young stud once a week. Sounds rather sad all around. You give without pleasure and he receives only because that is the price he has exacted. How fulfilling.

Finally, we have our young stud, 19 or 20 years old, who apparently has the hots for you, mid-fifties. You have not said there's anything in it for him, apart from sex with you. How long do you expect that to last? If he goes off with a gf, who just might be more to his liking and offers him some future, no doubt your husband's daily bj will be forfeit and I suppose you'll both be casting about for a replacement lover.

The arrangement sounds ghastly to its core. But that's just me. If it suits the 3 of you involved to a tee, that's what counts. But you asked what others think and I have offered my unvarnished opinion.

It may be that, albeit invited, my assessment will be seen as too stern and lacking in that spirit of gentility that is a hallmark of this forum. It might not survive moderators' scrutiny. I can live with that. Even if it warrants banishment, well, okay.

[effy2014]

I'm with BB on this. I always thought that sexual intimacy and the satisfaction derived from it, was an expression of love between partners. Based upon the last several posts in this forum, sexual satisfaction now appears now to be measured in length and girth. As for my feelings . . . you and your husband should have worked harder to find sexual satisfaction with each one another or not have gotten married.

Instead, it appears he has been the broker of your sexual affair for the price of a daily BJ. Don't YOU find this troubling?

[muffin70]

sounds like you only married him because he had a large wallet and not a large manhood if you know what I mean... like others have said if you are sexually satisfied and your hubby is then what you do is up to you really.....

Wife had a friend who married an older man some years ago, not because she loved him or because he was good in bed.... but because he was loaded with money. the friend got 'bored' and was getting a little extra sexual satisfaction on the side.... the husband found out and kicked her out and because he had most of his money tied up in 'trusts' she got very little when they divorced and she had to go out and find a job and a place to live...etc...

[Motorguy]

Well JillJames if you three enjoy this arrangement sounds like a good time for all three of you. Your right it's not cheating husband knows and OK with you enjoying a new guy in bed to help what you been missing sexually with a young stud. Plus husband enjoys oral sex from you it's a win win for all three of you then from what I see good luck and have fun.

[jilljames8184]

So far he has been very mature about the situation. He understands it is purely physical. He will graduate next semester and will be leaving. My husband and I have had him bring some friends over so we could check out possible replacements. No sex with his friends yet, we just wanted to check them out first. If we find one we like we may do a threesome as kind of a going away present. I would probably enjoy it more than him.

[jilljames8184]

Husband seems happier than he has ever been. He doesn't like sex in the usually way; man pleasing woman, woman pleasing man with all the foreplay and after play. His ideal sex experience is just him getting satisfied by shooting off; usually a quick blow job. He says that's more efficient.

[effy2014]

Husband seems happier than he has ever been. He doesn't like sex in the usually way; man pleasing woman, woman pleasing man with all the foreplay and after play. His ideal sex experience is just him getting satisfied by shooting off; usually a quick blow job. He says that's more efficient.

Sounds like the perfect marriage for you. Very efficient and lots of young studs. Good luck to you.