[jen1447]

Who cares? You should just tell her what SAGF did to you lol - own up, boy!

At any rate there's probably no need to discuss it any further, right? If you're determined to be coy, just stay mum about it all. Silence is never a wrong approach to anything, and its always better than lies. No one can catch you in a 'silence.'

[Something_Awesome]

Yeah, I don't really care to be honest. She also seems extremely mature. I've honestly had something else on my mind lmao. You know what it is. I even think about it while driving.

[Something_Awesome]

Ok guys, so the plan is to go buy the equipment locally in person at Hustler Hollywood. I think going in with my GF will be... theraputic. Hopefully we will buy the equipment this Friday (they may be closed though) since we will be not far from the shop on that day.

So how does one actually clean the inside of a butthole? I've heard Jen and SydneyAlive (haha, yeah I went there) mention they use warm soapy water and a wash cloth? So what do you do, put the wash cloth between your butt hole and finger, then push in with your finger? Don't you have to go deep?

[jen1447]

I take it everyone was waiting breathlessly for me to answer ....

Forget the cloth for that, it's for analingus specifically. Fact is you don't really have to do anything but some preventative measures. Namely, make sure you have a BM that day, several hours earlier than you plan to get pegged. Gross alert, sorry - poop doesn't stay in the rectum, which is where she'll be doing you. It's generally quite clean in there. Now, I've heard some scary sounding reports of ....accidents happening as a result of anal. All I can say is I've never seen that, either receiving the few times I have or giving many many times. Use some common sense tho, like if you're feeling a little unstable in the bowels, it's probably not a good time.

Some people are big on enemas ....just never appealed to me and seems unnecessary and not very sexy, but if you want to be as prepared as possible, that might be for you.

Now, the idea of switching up may come up, so if she wants you to suck her strapon, well then you have some different concerns. If she's determined, just do it before any of the pegging starts. Don't do it after, at all, UNLESS she uses a condom for pegging you and takes it off for sucking. Even then it's probably best just to keep them separate. If she wants strapon oral from you, juts do it first and separately.

Otherwise just relax, everything will be fine. You're a noob tho so start out slow and use lots of lube. You really shouldn't expect her to be burying it balls deep yet at this early stage, as you need to get pretty well conditioned for that. Lots of fun ahead getting to that point tho.

You might actually want to think about getting one of those training plugs when you go to Hustler btw. That could speed up the process significantly, plus it can be a hot way for her to keep you on her leash so to speak even when she's not right there with you. (You've got it is as a constant reminder of what she's going to do to you, etc. You get the idea.)

[Something_Awesome]

Ok, I have a lot of questions now.... But first, what is BM? I am pretty good with acronyms but I can't figure BM out. Only thing I can think of is badminton. I am hoping that knowing what BM stands for will clear up some of the questions on its own.

[jen1447]

Bowel movement, silly. You want to poop before you get pegged. Clear yourself out.

[Something_Awesome]

Oh we going balls deep on the first try. I am sure of it. I am too competitive not to. So what kind of lube should we use?

The sucking thing terrifies me. I am not doing that before or after lol.

[jen1447]

Lube is very relative from what I can see and depends on the person ....you should really just discuss it with an employee I think, tell them what your needs are and whatnot. They should know by the fact that you'll be carrying around a harness and a few dildos lol. I use Lelo stuff almost always, they have a water based lube that I use on BF. Works great. You do need a lot of lube tho, so ....I mean you could just get a gallon tub of KY or something lol.

p.s. - Exploring balls deep on the first try is fine, but very slowly and gently. Don't think she's gonna be hammering away like that just yet. It just isn't gonna happen in a way you'll like, and you don't want to spoil the fun by a bad first 'trip,' so ....just go slow. There's plenty of time to grab the rainbow.

[Motorguy]

Bowel movement, silly. You want to poop before you get pegged. Clear yourself out.

Well that's a good idea for sure, but a good flush out of the anal area is a good idea as well too Jenn.

[Motorguy]

Oh we going balls deep on the first try. I am sure of it. I am too competitive not to. So what kind of lube should we use?

The sucking thing terrifies me. I am not doing that before or after lol.

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