[effy2014]

I assume that they are on the road back to LA from Vegas. I am sure that SA will give us the full rundown. Next Vegas trip for them will involve far less alcohol.

[Something_Awesome]

Yes, she made it to the show feeling great (thank god). I didn't expect her to recover so well. Like a couple hours before the show she felt like she had to vomit but then did number 2 instead, which she says helped. It was just tough to get her to eat again. She was apprehensive about eating because she did so much vomiting. We went to Tapas like Effy recommended and we loved it. She especially loved it because she eats like a bird. The whole presentation style and the options and the serving size totally matched what she looks for in a restaurant!

Good job Effy!

[Something_Awesome]

Ok, my last post was super long so I cut and paste the following from my last post. The post before this is just the follow up on my GF's well-being. Thanks for caring!

Anyway... I started this topic because I think people were interested in two things. First, my GF and I were going to use the under-the-bed restraint system together for the first time. Second, was to talk about our strip club experience (her first time at a strip club).

We used the under-the-bed restraints on Friday and (surprise!) she had a tickling toy with her. She would hit my balls every time I laughed when she tickled me. Not sure how long that lasted though because I feel like I get desensitized quicker during arousal. It was awesome though. After the experience, I posted that I did not get pegged. (that all changed).

Well, a few days before the trip I looked up some pegging videos out of curiosity (I did not even know the act was called pegging until I joined WH). The first video I saw was pretty hot. Something about the girl pegging her guy in missionary was hot. I pictured my GF doing it and the image seemed even hotter. This was a surprise reaction as I expected to laugh a bit. The second video I saw was awesome. It was, according to the title, a Greek woman pegging her husband. I don't remember the exact title but it was 37 seconds long. Even though I sort of liked what I saw, I did not go to Vegas with the feeling that I want to get pegged.

Fast forward to a couple hours before we went to the strip club and my GF and I woke up from a "beauty nap." I thought it would be fun to show her the videos on my ipad (the same two I saw at home before the trip). After watching the first video I asked her what she thought and she said she liked it. I even did some skipping ahead on the first video (it was a few min long) and she told me to not do it, so she clearly was liking what she saw.

Then I showed her the second video (the 37 second one) and she said it was "exciting." We then watched other videos and I will never forget the look on her face as she was watching them. The lights were off and it was just the ipad light on her face. We were laying next to each other and I would just stare at her beautiful and illuminated face as the videos played. She looked very intrigued and interested in what she was seeing. I thought to myself that it would be hot for this girl to just own my butthole.

We talked over the whole pegging thing and we decided to use her vibrating dildo. I went to the bathroom just to confirm I was clean () while she (on her own) decided to research pegging. I honestly just expected her to lube up the toy and let the fun begin, but that's not what she had planned.

She restrained me face down and, this was the best part, she lubed up my butthole and began using a finger on the rim of it, then inserted one finger, then inserted a second finger. This "phase" probably lasted several minutes (I did not want it to end). I felt like a total b_tch. You know how sometimes in porn you will see a guy lick his fingers then rub the female's vagina before going in? Well, it was like she was doing that to me. I actually liked it a lot. It had this whole "I'm about to screw you" vibe to it.

Now when she used the toy... Man... I took most of it, and this thing can be pretty thick at some points. To be honest, I did not like the feeling. It just felt like reverse #2. The feeling itself was not pleasurable. She went at it for a while, even after I told her I was done lol. It was the idea that was pleasurable. I liked the thought, or the notion, of her doing it to me. The part where she prepped my bum was easily my favorite. She said the whole thing turned her on. She said she loved how the lube would run to my balls from my butthole. She said it looked the way fudge would run over scooped ice cream in an ice cream sundae (good simile I thought).

I will say that my butt was not dirty when I went to check and to clean it and that neither her fingers or the toy got dirty!

Again, I did not like the penetration. I didn't hate it either. It was just whatever to me. My mind was blown though when she was preparing me for penetration. I totally did not expect or even thing about having to be prepared.

I'll post about the strip club experience later. I thought that was interesting too.

[Baboy]

Glad you're back and all worked out SA.

Folks hereabouts were starting to worry.

[Something_Awesome]

Thanks for having me back!

[jen1447]

SumSum, you did it! So proud of you! There's no way around the fact that you really are her ***** now, but isn't it great? I told you it would be. (btw Little said don't write around the profanity filter anymore, so watch that.) On a technicality tho I guess I should point out that you didn't actually get pegged by strict definition. She has to be wearing a strapon for that, but I assume that's up next for online shopping. Let me know when the time comes, I have an absolute required unit for her. Seriously, she won't want any other harness, and the action is all in the harness. Everything comes from how well it fits, and how well she can thrust due to the fit.

I'm sure I'll have a lot of questions for you, but one thing I want to know right now - were you secretly considering this when you were so vehemently denying it would ever happen before? It hasn't escaped me that this actually wasn't her plan lol. (The tickle ball punishment was great too btw, reminds me of the 'rewards' system I used with BF. )

Anyway, good job! SAGF can actually start calling you the B word now lol.

[Something_Awesome]

She calls me the B word in private for fun.

Um, I was not secretly wanting it. It was that 37 second video that I think may have opened the door for me just a bit (it was hot). And seeing her face against the light of the ipad while in dark, seeing her expressions, and hearing her voice her opinions really opened my mind.

She did mention she wanted a strap on now. In the videos, the strap ons that were used appeared to have a lot more flex than Iris. The Iris is actually pretty solid (something I didn't consider until she put it in), and it gets pretty thick at some points (also did not consider) which caused a bit of discomfort in the beginning. I also loved how she talked dirty to me while doing it

This was definitely not her plan though. I thought it was funny when we later talked about the experience that she felt it was not "gay" even though I never brought up the topic. And I know I said I would never get "pegged" but I am a pretty open-minded guy (as is the GF). When I say open-minded I am not referring to sex only, but to everything. I can be convinced even when I appear I won't budge from a position.

I will also add that one of the reasons I looked up the videos before going to Vegas was because I thought "what if." You guys pounded it in my head so hard that I couldn't help but wonder. Then I saw those hot videos. They were both amateur videos too, which I think helped.

[Something_Awesome]

Oh, and wait until you hear my strip club story. Going in I thought it would just be "pretty fun," and that we were going in one couple short of having a great time, but I was wrong!

[jen1447]

She calls me the B word in private for fun.

I know right? Same with BF. Honestly, the coolest thing about all this is that you can be a manly man and her B at the same time. The fact is, it takes a 'real' man to have the balls to do what you did. It's just a best of both worlds type thing because you still get all the benefits of a 'normal' vibrant sexual relationship with her, plus the bonus kink of unequivocally giving up to her authority. Your loving description of watching the the light dance in he eyes when this was put on the table is actually really touching (and erotic lol).

Yeah the dirty talk is par for the course ....I assume you want her 'using and abusing' you and telling you the same, right? It wouldn't be quite the rush if she was just all business-like. I wouldn't be too concerned about the future btw - it'll get easier for you as she gets you more and more conditioned to take it. You might even start enjoying the sensation. I can guarantee you too that if you thought it was hot to have her around back like that, the sight of looking over your shoulder to see her dogging you out with a proper strapon will send you over the edge.

I honestly applaud your openmindedness and willingness to adapt, and mainly your willingness to do whatever it takes to please her. You've come a long way in a short time - no wonder she wants to marry you! And be glad her mind is where it's at on the 'gayness' issue - she probably assumed it would be on your mind and wanted to comfort you, but you should be very grateful she's just fine with it herself.

The rest is providence.

[effy2014]

Ok, my last post was super long so I cut and paste the following from my last post. The post before this is just the follow up on my GF's well-being. Thanks for caring!

Anyway... I started this topic because I think people were interested in two things. First, my GF and I were going to use the under-the-bed restraint system together for the first time. Second, was to talk about our strip club experience (her first time at a strip club).

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She restrained me face down and, this was the best part, she lubed up my butthole and began using a finger on the rim of it, then inserted one finger, then inserted a second finger. This "phase" probably lasted several minutes (I did not want it to end). I felt like a total b_tch. You know how sometimes in porn you will see a guy lick his fingers then rub the female's vagina before going in? Well, it was like she was doing that to me. I actually liked it a lot. It had this whole "I'm about to screw you" vibe to it.

While I realize that Jen is your mentor in all of this, you can really stop where you feel the best. If fingers make you feel the best and SAGF can get of on that, just stop there. I'm sure you are aware that there specific butt toys for men that you might like better. But, this is not a contest of how much discomfort you can feel . . . sometimes SO will use fingers there as she is giving me oral. The feeling/surprise can take my breath away and give me an amazing orgasm.